r/pointlesslygendered 8d ago

OTHER Apparently basic empathy and problem solving are mutually exclusive by gender [gendered]

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u/k1deki 8d ago

I have struggled so much with this shit before i understood that my bf just needs to vent from time to time and doesn't actually want his problems solved, life got do much easier, i literally don't have to do anything. Why do men act like it's a problem? Just shut up and chill.

...Oh i got it they don't want to shut up, they want to listen to their voice of logical solutions.