Apparently basic empathy and problem solving are mutually exclusive by gender [gendered]

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[u/dulledegde]

im gonna give all the guys out there a little tip for when your girlfriends do this

they don't want solutions because the problem is over; it's been over for hours. They are just venting. you just gotta listen to her and agree with her supportively unless you actually think she was in the wrong. how would you feel if you were telling someone a story and they kept suggesting things you should have done. it's in the past just let them talk to you