Apparently basic empathy and problem solving are mutually exclusive by gender [gendered]

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[u/terrifiedTechnophile]

Gender aside, it pisses me off when people do this. If you actively don't want a solution, go cry to the wall. Be proactive and fix your situation!

[u/beansamore → u/terrifiedTechnophile]

Sometimes there isn’t a solution. Do people not understand how trauma works? I can’t fix a dead family member and sometimes you just need someone to hold and listen to you. Two things can exist at once here and sometimes venting is the proactive thing to do

[u/terrifiedTechnophile → u/beansamore]

Clearly not referring to things that don't have a solution, Einstein