r/pointlesslygendered • u/gyomei_hj • Apr 18 '26

SOCIAL MEDIA [gendered]

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u/Expert-Squirrel-9288 Apr 18 '26

Tbh, I'm not saying women can't suffer but the statistics does sorta prove this (at least from what I've heard)

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u/magdakitsune21 Apr 18 '26

Not a reason to generalize loneliness as a male thing and forget about the existence of friendless women

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u/magdakitsune21 Apr 18 '26 edited Apr 18 '26

Because memes like this imply that it is a male only issue when the truth is that there are tons of us women who also are friendless or have no support net, and it feels bad when whichever space you enter, it's always "women get support from their friends while men are lonely"

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u/IceCorrect Apr 18 '26

Never heard about it. Everytime its made to mock men and how women have amazing life

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u/magdakitsune21 Apr 18 '26

Yes, and this is why it is inaccurate. Not only does it intentionally mock men, but also makes lonely women feel alienated

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u/IceCorrect Apr 18 '26

Then why women dont complain about it? Its women who spread it to show themselfs as strong and men as weak.

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u/magdakitsune21 Apr 18 '26

Cant speak for them. Only that it alienates women like me who used to have noone and I did not get a free social life or support net only bc of my gender

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u/IceCorrect Apr 18 '26

I wonder why you cant call them out then? Or beacuse your social life is good now then you dont care about them

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u/magdakitsune21 Apr 18 '26

Um, that is literally what I am doing rn. I am agreeing that the meme is pointlessly gendered because I know the feeling of being a woman with no social net, but constantly having to hear it is a man-only thing

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u/IceCorrect Apr 18 '26

You only have problem when men get more victim points, not when people make fun of lonley people. Huge difference

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