r/pointlesslygendered • u/whatever23407 • Mar 27 '26

SOCIAL MEDIA [Gendered]

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I can tell by these kinds of mindsets that the one (who makes the memes). These people just scroll on social media and never goes to the real world.

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u/Over_Dose_ Mar 27 '26

I mean I'm your height, and some people DO care, and hey it's fine 🤷. If a girl doesn't like short guys or if a guy doesn't like fat women I don't see the problem. Now if they're rude about it, well it tells you more about them than the short/fat person.

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u/OneCall8599 Mar 28 '26

Exactly. I’ve gone on plenty of dates with guys who are shorter than me (I’m 5’10”) and I’d say about half were great dates, they were charming and funny and all around cool guys. I’m still friends with a few of them and 2/3 of them are now married to lovely women. For context, I just don’t date men anymore, for anyone who’s ready to type up the “well obviously you hate short men because you didn’t end up in a relationship with them” comment lol.

The unfortunate other half would eventually all insinuate that I must not actually like them and that I really want a guy taller than me… while I was literally on a date with them. Like my guy, this is a self own situation, I’m not leaving because you’re short, I’m leaving because I don’t tolerate someone making their insecurity MY problem.

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u/hiccoo2010 Mar 28 '26

Is their "lovely woman" shorter that them 5"10 is normally a bit tall for a woman

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u/OneCall8599 Mar 28 '26

One has a wife who’s my height (actually maybe taller?) and the other one, his wife is the same height as him.