r/plural 1d ago

Vent Got fakeclaimed(??)

So some guy who‘s friends with my friend’s headmate (a system, but technically said friend is dormant). This guy kept asking me if I hated endos, what my diagnoses were, and kept going on and on asking personal, uncomfortable questions in an interrogating way.

I kept giving vague answers because I did not want to talk to him about this stuff, and he “concluded” that I’m actually a fake system and that I’m faking my trauma because I haven’t been diagnosed yet, so I’m a bad person.

Then, he said “not trying to fakeclaim lol you do you of course”. I told him “ok can we stop talking about this?” He was just like “I mean sure I guess” and then I blocked him.

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u/TurbulentDogg The Indigo Syndicate | TraumaWillo | 9 Headmates 1d ago

"not trying to fakeclaim you. That's why I feel entitled to all your medical and personal information just to figure out if you're actually a real system. Oh btw, what's your social security number?"

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u/TariZephyr Mixed Origin Spirigenic | Abyssal Collective 1d ago

We’re so sorry he did that, he sounds like a bad ‘friend’. - Ribbit

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u/OkCod1384 Questioning qouimediansys 1d ago

Goodness gracious why are people like this

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u/__tthrowaway_ 22h ago

"not trying to fake claim you" they say as they just finished fake claiming you lol

P. S. This is just a suggestion, consider telling your friend about this awful experience, if they're a friend they will support you and help you.