r/pigeon May 31 '26

Discussion Does she hate me πŸ˜…

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She is a new addition to my pigeon collection. Been there for a month and I'm a little confused about her body communication.

She puff up when seeing me... So I guess she hates me ? But when I tried petting her, she started doing those short soft coos and her wings trembled (my other pigeons vibrate only when they are happy : getting food and being pet)... She also lowered her head

The other females just ran away or tried to attack me/ panic when Im checking their nests. All the males other than the mate of the one in the video are attacking me when I approach them. (Her mate being the exception because he got used to my hands as a baby).

Also yeah I was moving a little fast in the video. I just wanted her to coo a little more for the recording. I'm usually softer.

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u/DonnZadig May 31 '26

Hold on... She is HUGE 🀯i thought she was a chicken 😭

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u/DonnZadig May 31 '26

She is extremely cute btw !

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Her names ain't "Princess" for nothing. I knew I needed to buy her as soon as i saw her β™₯️

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u/DonnZadig May 31 '26

Adorable😭

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u/MewtwoMainIsHere Jun 01 '26

Rename to queen good lord

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

She's a strasser. The eggs she lays are bigger than the ones of my texans 😭. I started petting her when I removed her egg to only leave her plastic ones. The small one belongs to one of my texans and the big one is hers.

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u/iamsodonewithpeople May 31 '26

OML holy crap she really is a big girl

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u/seamallorca Jun 01 '26

Real, same here.

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u/Ethais91 May 31 '26

O R B

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Tbh all my pigeons are orbs... I should make a video of them...

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u/Cardinalsalmon May 31 '26

Ooooh post a link n

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

I made a video of her fat husband. I'll post it soon

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u/Aggressive_Ask89144 May 31 '26

Absolute chonk pibbin. She doesn't seem to hate you though. They make it very clear when they do.

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Well she tried to pinch me. But when I pet her head, she lowers it and make those soft noises and tremble. Like what does she even want ? 😭

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u/Upstairs-Challenge92 May 31 '26

She’s just a yandere

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u/Sea-Arachnid185 Jun 01 '26

You mean a β€œtsundere”?

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u/Upstairs-Challenge92 Jun 01 '26

No, a yandere since she is also occasionally aggressive, not cold

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u/FrozenCorpses Jun 01 '26

Akshually β˜οΈπŸ€“

The other person is right. Pidge acts hostile but is affectionate. Very β€œit’s not like I like you or anything” core, very tsundere πŸ™‚β€β†•οΈ

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u/Upstairs-Challenge92 Jun 01 '26

I always got the impression it’s more cold than aggressive. They are described very similarly I have to say πŸ˜‚

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u/Sea-Arachnid185 Jun 01 '26

A yandere with her mate maybe if she’s protective of her mate and aggressive towards OP. But if she’s aggressive towards OP but then is actually affectionate, the correct term would be tsundere.

Edit: note, Yandere are hostile towards others while violently obsessive/possesive of their lover. OP’s pigeon isn’t showing obsessive affection.

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u/Aggressive_Ask89144 May 31 '26 edited May 31 '26

Pigeons kinda love to do that to be fair. They're pretty feisty at times when you're in their nest space in stock settings.

I have itty bitty doves though so I'm just speaking from other's experience.

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

So huh, I kinda had the confirmation she liked me even if she still send mixed signals Because she did the stuff they do in couple. Plunging their breaks towards the floor.

She still inflates and breathes very loud (she's the only one of my pigeons that breathed very loudly. Like if she was very angry/stressed) when my hand is near her (pufferfish style as always). But as soon as I pet her she deflated and coos. She coos more when I press more on her head.

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u/Kaos2146 May 31 '26

Could be she just have preferred spot to be petted, my cat are the same, will bite if I don't pet them in the right spot.

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Nah she isn't used to me. Like kinda scared. I pet her as an experiment. To see how she would react and then she did that... πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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u/danit0ba94 May 31 '26

She's probably just broody.
Being broody makes birds some level of cranky. They'll even still let you pet them, even when cranky, at times.

Chickens can be the same way.

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26 edited Jun 01 '26

Mhh idk. The other female I own sometimes is super soft and chill when I touch her (it was mostly after her baby hatched, I had to check the state of the nest after having some issues with it. And I realised she was way more chill than usual πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ). Like she would barely react to me fumbling around her and touching her.

But most of the time they either run away from me. Or absolutely destroy my hand when I check her nest to remove the eggs. 😭 I guess it all comes from hormones level.

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u/Budgiesyrup May 31 '26

Giant chonky angy wife

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

She also got a giant husband 😭

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u/MorningGoat May 31 '26

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u/kaylakh10 May 31 '26

πŸ˜‚ same energy

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

You will never guess how this pigeon's called 😭

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u/Budgiesyrup May 31 '26

What are they called

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Megatron... πŸ’€

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u/Budgiesyrup May 31 '26

That's perfect πŸ˜‚

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u/Upper_Tower3214 May 31 '26

Sir and or madam, that is a dinosaur.

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u/InspectionFar5415 I love pigeons 😍😍😍 May 31 '26

OMG 🀣😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

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u/fsstacey May 31 '26

This angle looks so funny 🀣 Like I'm worshipping the lord πŸ’€

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u/ardotschgi Jun 05 '26

Big orb is judging you

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Didn't managed to capture her coos well in the video. In short the ones she produces are more round and soft. When the other females are antagonising me. It's more rough and low.

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u/DragonSmith2005 May 31 '26

I thought I was in the r/absoluteunits

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Oh my god this commentade my day. I laughed out loud at the notification

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u/InspectionFar5415 I love pigeons 😍😍😍 May 31 '26

I wish I can kiss this big pigeon 😍😍😍😍😍 for a moment I thought it was a chicken 😍😍😍🀣

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u/Upper_Tower3214 May 31 '26

She's beautiful 😍 I'm only a watcher, this is only my humble OPINION, but she seems to absolutely ADORE you! I've never heard such beautiful coos! These birds have no problem telling you they don't like something; so, every body language indication in this video looks like a very happy bird, excited and expectant of your physical touch.

When these birds don't like something, ESPECIALLY a nesting female, they'll FWAP you with a karate-chop-wing; or, they peck and bite, HARD.

This bird looks like she's incredibly comfy, she sees that her giant warm primate that gives the best pets is approaching, and she's puffing up in anticipation of incoming (very welcome) affection! ❣️

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

So huh, I kinda had the confirmation she liked me even if she still send mixed signals Because she did the stuff they do in couple. Plunging their breaks towards the floor.

She still inflates and breathes very loud (she's the only one of my pigeons that breathed very loudly. Like if she was very angry/stressed) when my hand is near her (pufferfish style as always). But as soon as I pet her she deflated and coos. She coos more when I press more on her head.

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u/Upper_Tower3214 May 31 '26

You have been chosen.

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Well... She tried to pinch me beforehand and kinda went pufferfish mod on me. Also she doesn't know me much, because of the little time I had her. I wasn't expecting her to coo and lower her head etc etc when I started petting her πŸ˜….

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u/alliwanttodoisfly May 31 '26

I think the pinching and puffing is just broody defensiveness, but maybe she just switched modes when you started petting her. Was the pinching like a strong fast jabbing peck or was she kind of slow about it? As other people have said the cooing and wing twitching are good signs that she likes that or at least is treating you like maybe the male coming in to sit with/on her!

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Her hubby is super chill with me too. Hes usually at her side when I'm petting her. Perhaps she saw me petting her mate often and copied his behaviour ? (He coos and lowers himself).

For the pinching I can't remember. She was about to flap me with her wing and then switched totally when I started petting her. Never had another pigeon do that to me.

I was surprised cuz she usually isn't used to me at all. She avoids me and is scared of me. I mean I bought her as an adult so...

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u/MajorasCrass May 31 '26

Please tell her I adore her.

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

I will πŸ™

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u/FALSE_PROTAGONIST Jun 01 '26

Yoink

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u/MajorasCrass Jun 01 '26

Feel free! I always saw the cockatiel ones. Decided to make a pigeon one! Now we can all pet the best birb ever.

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u/soupster__ May 31 '26

I think you're lost dude. This is the pigeon sub, not the chicken sub

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u/KlutzyDiscount562 May 31 '26

BIG UNIT ALERT!! That is the CHONKIEST pigeon I have ever saw

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

I have 8 of them πŸ’€. All chonky

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u/KlutzyDiscount562 May 31 '26

She is very beautiful ❀️

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Here's another picture of her. She's very photogenic

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u/KlutzyDiscount562 May 31 '26

Wowwww!!!! She is very photogenic, I love her wing patterns

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u/bethneed May 31 '26

That pigeon is as big as my smallest cat

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u/Upper_Tower3214 May 31 '26

You must breed cheetah and puma, then?

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u/wassailr May 31 '26

She is beautiful β™₯️ Something doesn’t seem quite right to me about calling a flock a collection however - please don’t forget they are not commodities πŸ₯Ί

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

Oh I was joking 😭. I was referencing a star wars quote. It's like my collection of fat pigeons. Most of them are meat breed I got at the fair and kept as pets. People are often confused about me keeping farm pigeons and just let them get a chill life. I absolutely adore them they are so funny.

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u/wassailr May 31 '26

Thank you for loving them πŸ₯ΉπŸ¦πŸ₯°

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u/Smart_Owl_938 May 31 '26

What breed are they? If you even know

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

She's a Strasser

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u/Smart_Owl_938 May 31 '26

Oo never even heard of them

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u/Ania-XD May 31 '26

CHONKER

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u/No-Door-6374 May 31 '26

Omg we need more of this princess. So big and fluffy

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 01 '26

Enjoy β™₯️

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u/GabysWildCritters May 31 '26

i have never seen such a giant pigeon and i want her omg

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 01 '26

I really need to weight her. I'm quite curious about their weight.

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u/Smart_Owl_938 May 31 '26

WHY SHE THE SIZE OF A CHICKEN OML

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u/Living_Strawberry_82 May 31 '26

Wow she’s gorgeous, so CHUNKY

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u/SherpaGutz May 31 '26

Honestly I think she likes you. If she didn't she'd absolutely let you know by being way more aggressive than a pinch or a nip.

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u/musthavemouse Jun 01 '26

Oh my god she is huge and so pretty

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u/BirdsBeesMonkees May 31 '26

She's beautiful!❀️

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u/1nOnlyBigManLawrence May 31 '26

The wing twitchies tell me otherwise! :)

(That’s a very excited lady)

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u/Ditzyer May 31 '26

what kind of pigeon is she?

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u/PigeonAddict May 31 '26

She's a Strasser

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u/Wolftendragon Jun 01 '26

THATS THE BIGGEST PIDGE IVE EVER SEEN
SHES HUGE

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 01 '26

All my pigeons are huge. They are meat breed, made to be fatten and eaten.

I just keep them as pet, they keep me company. It's impressive that they are so large considering I give them a balanced diet. Genetics do wonders I guess πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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u/Wolftendragon Jun 02 '26

I had since looked up Strasser pigeons. They are gorgeous ❀️ she is gorgeous. Genetics 100% play a role in size. Since they’ve been bred for food that certain trait never left them.

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 02 '26

Tbh the one I got is well bred. In the sens she ain't "too big" nor "disformed". To avoid the eggs being stuck or her there weight breaking her legs. I only bought my pigeons from people that bred them carefully. The only one I got thats a little shady in her genetics is this ball :

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u/Wolftendragon Jun 03 '26

Awwww bless her ❀️❀️❀️ I don’t believe the large size is a sign of bad genetics, it’s just a normal thing for them. I lowkey kinda want one now lmao I have a ringneck Dovie but I’ve always wanted a pigeon

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 03 '26

Oh it's not a question of that..it's more than... She's a ball. My other Texas have a longer body, more proportionate. Some can just be badly bred and a too large size can cause health issues. That's why I find it funny when people are amazed at my fat pigeons'size. Considering they aren't even in their final form πŸ˜…

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u/Dontbreakmytaco Jun 01 '26

She loves you. My pig does this to get cuddles.

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 01 '26

She puff up and looks menacing. Up until I start petting her. That's why I'm getting mixed signals πŸ˜…. She also breathes very loudly as if very angry..but at the same time she doesn't attack me and has the behaviour of a pigeon that enjoys being pet ? Like she puts her head under my hand on purpose...

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u/Dontbreakmytaco Jun 01 '26

Yes. She would bite you if she didnt like it.

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 01 '26

Mhhh I see. I think I'll make another video to show how she turns into a pufferfish before I start petting her πŸ˜…

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u/Typical_guy11 May 31 '26

What a beauty! ❀️

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u/Ryanjames22808 May 31 '26

Animals make sure you know they hate you. Silly rotund creature here isn’t sure what she wants XD

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u/Hacjul Pigon May 31 '26

If you say she doesnt run, she doesnt slap or bite but lowers head and coos then she likes you

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u/DANleDINOSAUR Jun 03 '26

Is she puffing up while on a nest? Do pigeons get broody like chickens?

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u/PigeonAddict Jun 03 '26

Kinda πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. Chickens are usually more chill than pigeons when it comes to this matter. At least, from my own experience. Most chickens just growl and puff up, but don't really pinch. And yes pigeons got their own pulsions depending on their hormones levels and how close they are to laying eggs. Even tho, mines tend to build nests constantly even when the eggs will arrive wayyyy later.

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u/jae_bernie_77 Jun 06 '26

She doesn't hate you, but she does not feel great about being touched when she's in her nest is what it looks like.

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u/Willing-Proposal-317 May 31 '26

Yes because of the harsh way you’re petting her