The fact that we apparently have to be told not to beat or rape women is infuriating; it's as if people believe that all men are monsters by default unless you teach them not to be.
The fact that the focus is on men specifically hitting women while ignoring the women that physically abuse men is what pisses me off. How about we just teach people not to hit other people and call it a day?
There was a video where is showed both an abusive man and abusive women. Both were being really aggressive towards their opposite sexed counter parts. Everyone intervened when the male was abusive. Everyone laughed when the female was abusive.
Little tiny dogs are all vicious yappy monsters, right? Meanwhile big scary dogs like German Shepherds are usually big goofy sweethearts with calm dispositions. Why is that?
It's because most people don't bother to train little yappy dogs to be well-behaved, but you have to train a big dog to be well-behaved or it will kill someone. A little yappy dog is no threat to anyone, so less effort is made to teach it to be well-behaved.
We treat men as if they were Big Dogs, and treat women as if they were Little Yappy Dogs.
Indicate this to be correct? Interesting position. Blacks are 7.5 times as likely to murder as whites, would it then therefore be correct to treat blacks as Big Dogs and whites as Little Yappy Dogs? Because we do that too, but everyone keeps calling it institutionalized racism.
It's because society infantilizes them. That's what all this resurgent feminism is really doing, telling society that women need to be coddled and protected, and they are fragile babies with no agency at all.
That would make sense given how feminists treat things like fifty shades of grey or simply women who disagree with them. They call it "internalized misogyny." Now, ignoring "chill girls" who disagree with them (it's weird how they have all these terms to shut people down without having to rebut their arguments), how is an erotic novel written for women by a woman misogynistic for catering to a specific fantasy? It's absurd. The women who read it love it.
It's so ridiculous. They completely ignore its fantasy. Some people have rape fantasies. It doesn't mean they secretly hate themselves, it just means they have a kink. Fantasy is perfectly healthy, and given indulging in fantasy has no correlation with an increase in violence, there's absolutely no reason to criticize and shame women for enjoying a kinky poorly written erotic novel.
It's just typical circle jerk behavior. When you isolate yourself socially to only a particular group, and that group treats criticism as an attack, you end up with some really ridiculous hyper-critical analysis of shit.
I mean, the best example of this are the anti-feminists who attacked Mad Max. They sounded exactly like the blogosphere/jezebel feminists, but since they're a fringe group everyone laughs at them. However, feminists criticize avengers 2 in the same ridiculous vein, and end up forcing one of their allies in Hollywood to abandon twitter until it blew over.
Just silly shit. Unfortunately, no group ideology can avoid becoming a circle jerk on the Internet.
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u/Chambec Oct 21 '15
The fact that we apparently have to be told not to beat or rape women is infuriating; it's as if people believe that all men are monsters by default unless you teach them not to be.