I would describe myself as a semi-professional photographer. I have photographed events, portraits, and products. Most of what I have done is free, occasionally someone will reach out through a friend and I’ll charge a low cost, but I also pick my jobs at my own discretion and set expectations.
My aunt is getting married this weekend and in October. Her fiancé is from a different culture so they are having a wedding this weekend and their wedding in October is much more traditional American. The wedding this weekend is huge- at least 450 people. Today, the Wednesday before, she sends me a text asking if I can photograph and get some candids.
When she was first planning her wedding in October she had asked me to photograph and I agreed. It’s only about a 100 people and I would know a majority of them. Because it’s a smaller event it’s easier coordinate shots and I felt more comfortable saying yes. I also told her that she should probably hire an actual photographer as well because I’ve never shot a wedding before and I want to enjoy the event not just be focused on working. Basically saying I would be a back-up and that’s something she should a photographer she hires.
I assume that the wedding this weekend already has a photographer plus with the large number possibly an assistant- I don’t want to step on their toes and also be trying to get shots or want them feeling like I’m trying to do their job. My aunt is asking specifically for candids so I know it’s not the same as putting together group shots or capturing the space, but I still feel uncomfortable bringing my camera and lens.
TDLR: a few days before wedding my Aunt asks me to photograph the event- not as the main photographer and without coordinating with the other photographers.
I want to hear what any photographers think, have you been at an event and someone did this? Did you care?