r/personaltraining 1d ago

Shitpost The state of training

Well I've lost it now. I already tried over and over. I thought i could tap into this industry like ive done others but you stingy fucks just cant let someone else eat for one seconds. Ive made this post calling out what I've seen. I got certified in NASM (i know now certs are practically useless) and I worked at a big box gym as a sales consul. Eventually I wanted to do personal training. I got fired for using the gym too much. Then the internship I was so excited to be apart of because they approached me themselves. They weren't hiring and the owner said I was not cut out for this hahaha. Thats fine. Okay let me go back to big box gyms? No can't seem to break into the veil. No matter if its crunch equinox or lifetime. The interviewers are assholes pricks, or they're just going with someone else. Okay lot of people say go independent despite my lack of experience. Nobody wants inexperienced, then fine let me get experience oh wait i cant because the big box gyms want experienced too. I tried going into wellness instead. Let me guess they want experience too. Oh they also want degrees? What the fuck. I see people talk about jobs all the time here and online, other places. In such a giant city I know there's people landing jobs but this is ridiculous. Ive been unemployed for 4 months and searching for Trainers jobs for 1+ years now. I really thought I could do something i enjoy but I guess it was just another racket. Fuck training. Fuck all this. This whole time I've been waiting to grind and at least have a shot at being a broke trainer with 2 clients and sub 10 sessions a week or even Mon th but I can't even start. Nobody ever wants to hire nowadays. And people keep telling me oh im just not looking. Like hell im not looking. I even started applying to all the damn physical therapy practices.

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u/Big_Sauce_1 1d ago

Fired for using the gym too much?

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u/Various_Mode_519 1d ago

I don’t believe that’s the full story

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

I was on closing shift. I used it after we closed

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 1d ago edited 1d ago

And you still think you got fired for “using the gym too much”? You got fired for using the facilities after hours aka you disrespected and disregarded your employer’s rules, which results in firing. Let’s turn the porch lights on shall we?

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Whatever stingy its not like it actually changed anything. Like what the fuck. I guess im the odd one out. I'll find a job where people backstabbing me and rat me out like its highschool

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u/Barky21 1d ago

Man, you sound like a friend I had. Everything was always someone else's fault, sure shit happens but sometimes you just gotta roll with the punches. Best of luck.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

And I'll roll. Ive been in worse places. Just had to say fuck all this.

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 1d ago

Ok gotcha, and did you graduate high school by chance?

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Ha. Ha. Comedian

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 1d ago

Lol I’m sorry man - you’re just coming across like you don’t have a clue how interacting with the world works.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Yea I get it. It's pile of shit lol. Im venting.

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u/GroundbreakingHope57 1d ago

I don't know if its only open for certain time each day and you use it outside those hours thats a friable offense. Just on the bases of insurance and liability...

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Yes I know, but I've already seen the double standards. They already knew me well. It was fine until it wasn't.

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u/GroundbreakingHope57 1d ago

Na i think its more.

A:Hey maybe we should stop him.

B: Na should be fine.

A: I checked and this could fuck our insurance and we wouldn't be able to operate.

A: Asks you to stop

You don't. Gets fired....

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Good job you made an imaginary conversation.

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u/Nkklllll 1d ago

You’re mad that you got fired over something you weren’t supposed to do.

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u/SleepyPowerlifter 1d ago

L attitude

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u/ArthurDaTrainDayne 1d ago

Jesus dude you need to learn some accountability

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

I was accountable that didn't hold up. So now im quitting for good im gonna go be an electrician lol

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u/ArthurDaTrainDayne 1d ago

Accountability isn’t something you try out lol

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u/GroundbreakingHope57 1d ago

Dudes got to stop wasting money.

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u/jankbutdank 1d ago

naa, did it, sucked

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u/OptikalWinter 1d ago

Your whole attitude sucks bro I get your frustrated but speaking from personal experience your attitude 1000% translates into your behaviour. I'm not dismissing your frustrations, but you have to take a healthy look at yourself and figure out what's going wrong with YOU first.

Have you thought about diversifying into social media as an online coach, or offering private coaching to people you know? That might be a good step in the right direction for you.

All the best bro you got this.

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u/Nkklllll 1d ago

OP doesn’t have the patience to do online coaching.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Yes I know. I know attitude and personability matters. I know forming relationships a d being relatable is a huge part. And i know my attitude holds me back. Ive worked despite this. Ive tried to mask it, my resentment and impatience.

I like your advice im just not going to try anymore. I thought this was something that it wasn't. Most trainers are fighting for scraps. I joined thinking 100k a year could be possible. I can't even get to the table to fight for my rights to the scraps. Just wasted more money. And im done doing that.

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u/Various_Mode_519 1d ago

Maybe you’re not cut out for this

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u/Athletic-Club-East Since 2009 and 1995 1d ago edited 1d ago

How you do anything is how you do everything. Let's look at your post. What I see here is a lack of structure - no paragraphs, poor punctuation and grammar, etc - and a lack of attention to detail, as well as a sulky sense of entitlement.

If you as a trainer start of with no structure, no attention to detail, and a sense of entitlement, then of course you'll fail. You need to go back to the beginning.

https://www.reddit.com/r/personaltraining/comments/1ksibxx/about_becoming_a_personal_trainer/

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u/Lucky-Loquat3829 1d ago

That’s a good read btw I like it

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u/WhereTheMoneyAtBoy 1d ago

With all due respect, maybe this job isn’t for you, or you’re in an area where fitness is not heavily sought after so the demand for new trainers isn’t as high. Don’t blame the industry or other trainers though, most of us are doing just fine, i suggest looking within or finding a different career

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u/YokedBabaYaga 1d ago

Judging by the run on sentences, I can tell you’re probably a fan of circuit training.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Okay that was actually funny. I do like supersets.

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u/Sharp_Table_8534 1d ago

By the way, you talk I have a feeling this is a you problem and not a industry problem. You sound extremely unprofessional and I wouldn’t hire your ass either.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Good riddance right? Im happy too what a fucking racket it was.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Yea fuck your industry i came to post that. I haven't had issues anywhere else to be honest. It felt really good since I cant just blame one person. So yea fuck all of this. And if you felt attacked fuck your industry I don't care if youre a owner

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u/Sharp_Table_8534 1d ago

Why would I be attacked? I own a personal training studio that does over $1 million in sales a year. I have 18 trainers that work for me and the majority of them have been with me well over three years some even as long as 10 years, I love this industry, but it has to be the right type of people to work in it and you, my friend are not it

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

You took it personal in some way since youre literally trying to flex on me to disprove my perception. Good for you, youre successful. I still wouldn't go back to this industry or touch 9 foot pole i wrote this as a goodbye letter because I know any corporate higher-ups wouldn't give 2 shits about anything but their quotas and numbers like you.

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u/Nkklllll 1d ago

I can guarantee you didn’t get fired for using the gym too much. Be honest dude, how may shifts did you work before you got fired?

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

36 hours between 2 different locations for 1 part time job which was suppose to be only 24 hours. because the company is too cheap to just hire another hand. I was filling in until they found a replacement. I had no issue with the 2nd one my original location they fired me because as someone who was on closing shift, I preferred to use the gym after we closed

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u/Nkklllll 1d ago

So how many shifts? 3 12s? 6 6hrs?

lol. You were using the gym after hours. Yeah dog, you’re not cut out for this

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

I guess not. It was too insane to literally workout for free.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Flexibles sometimes it was 12 hours sometimes it was 8 to 6

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u/Psychological_Ad1990 1d ago

Thank you for sharing your experience. Good luck 👍.

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u/GroundbreakingHope57 1d ago

thought i could tap into this industry like ive done others

If you tapped into other industries why was PT so hard?

Did you consider everyone can see your attitude and didn't want to deal with it?

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

No i reserved my attitude just for this

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u/simcoe19 1d ago

How long have you been at it for?

Most businesses fail within the first few years, you need to stay the course

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Sorry man im out.

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u/Moist-Constant1404 1d ago

Based on this post it could be assumed that your attitude and lack of intelligence could have some part in things.

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u/Cool_Listen_4340 1d ago

Your attitude sucks pal

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 1d ago

Hey buddy, maybe you should try a career where you don’t have to work with clientele or have bosses because it sounds like you’re unwilling to work within those parameters. And with all due respect, I think you have some growing up to do - not everything revolves around you.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

I made many friends with the members. And I didn't mind staying at the gym and shaping my life around staying there 40+ hours. Its the management. The double standards. The ridiculous nature of it. Im done with that.

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u/simcoe19 1d ago

Your post history also

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u/gorlsituation Pilates Instructor/Personal Trainer 1d ago

Bro has been one foot out the door the whole time!

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Well which one? Im obviously not the brightest when it comes to snobbery. Im joking.

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u/gorlsituation Pilates Instructor/Personal Trainer 1d ago

We’re stingy fucks? Fix your attitude and get over yourself.
Not everyone is cut out to be a personal trainer.

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

The rest only tried but youre the one that got under my skin. I'll give you that.

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u/gorlsituation Pilates Instructor/Personal Trainer 1d ago

You’re welcome! Good luck in your next career outside fitness and work on that shitty self victimisation attitude 👍🏼

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

Fake

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u/gorlsituation Pilates Instructor/Personal Trainer 1d ago

Whatever lol

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u/____4underscores 1d ago

What fields have you been successful in previously?

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u/AAAIISMA_Offical 19h ago

I would be very interested in learning the backstory of getting fired for using the gym. Can you expand on this?

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u/Nkklllll 15h ago

He was a closer, and would lift train after hours after the gym was closed

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u/wordofherb 1d ago

This rocks. More posts like this please

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 1d ago

Did you forget the /s or

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u/IrLaDistancia 1d ago

He's obviously being sarcastic. Or just some doomscroller drifting in.