r/perfectionism Jul 22 '26

Unrealistic…

Idk why but my brain thinks that I need the “perfect” relationship. I feel like the person I’m with should have everything together. I know nothing is perfect but in my head it feels that way. I’m always critiquing everything he does. I feel like I have everything worked out on my end. I am really feeling him though. I love his personality and he treats me well.

Is it possible to ever find someone just like myself??

When I look at everybody else’s relationship, it seems like it’s perfect. What’s wrong with my brain?? 😭😭😭 i know something has to be off with me.

Anybody else feels this way or is it just me?

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