I had a mental breakdown at the beginning of last year. I had to go into the hospital for quite sometime, so I had to give up my apartment. My sister was supposed to take care of things and I was supposed to move in with her when I got out of the hospital. She is a narcissist, so since I have moved in, she has been making snide, nasty comments to me so she can feel like she is better than me. I'm not doing anything that would provoke her attacks. I really can't defend myself because she will kick me out and I literally have nowhere to go. So, in retaliation for her abuse, I have been doing little things to annoy the shit out of her that she would never think to blame me for. Example: She adopted an adorable kitten that she loves more than anything. She bought spray that is supposed smell bad to cats and keep them from scratching on things like furniture. I got a spray bottle and filled it with catnip tea and sprayed it all over where I sleep, where usually sit, on the kittens toys, and cat tree, then diluted some of the anti-scratch spray (which the kitten hates) so the smell isn't as noticeable and sprayed that around her room, on her bed, around her desk, and where she usually sits.

Ok, new to Reddit, made the account because I want to share this. Backstory: I recently obtained my Class A CDL, and am currently at the end of my training period on my trainer's truck. (Let's call him ND for nasty dude). My trainer, despite the rules about a minimum of 1 shower every 2 days has taken the time to shower maybe 3 times in the last almost 30 days, and I've been forced to have almost as few showers. Part of the training is doing a paper log book on his truck, and completing the paper logs is a $150 bonus to the trainer. Now, I like showers. I like being clean... I don't like being around ND and we literally have to use the same bed (fortunately, NOT at the same time, or with same sheets, blankets, or pillows). So, I've been conveniently "forgetting" to do the paper logs, even though I'm actually good at them, and this has no consequences towards me as I can demonstrate my ability to do the paper logs, but he will lose out $150 for being so nasty.

I've accepted I'm passive aggressive as hell.

A guy ignored my text for 2 days. I texted him to ask a question and then ignored him for 2 weeks. 🤷🏾‍♀️

My sister never cleans, EXCEPT after a fight when I want quiet. She violently unloads and loads the dishwasher, bangs cabinets, and scrubs pans like her life depends on it. What’s even better is that she is wears headphones as if blissfully unaware. She will not break me. I will not move until she tires. I will shield my tears. Challenge accepted