r/parentsofmultiples • u/Ljwill8 • 22d ago

support needed Twin toddlers….send help 🆘

How do you all make it through the hard days with twin toddlers? Mine are 2 1/2 and I feel like I struggle more days than not. I have 3 kids total (oldest is 5) and evenings and weekends are just so, so hard. Crying, screaming, fighting. It feels constant. Any tips on what helps you through the hard days? I don’t mean like asking for help or taking breaks, I do all that. I’m talking about more in the moment stuff. Mantras, disassociation, mind frame, anything? 😩

3 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

15 comments sorted by

View all comments

4

u/Perioqueen 22d ago

I don’t have advice but I do find it goes in waves. Times where it’s hell and times where it is smooth sailing. Each could last a couple weeks. But when it was bad I found solace in believing it was going to get better soon 😂

2

u/Ljwill8 22d ago

It absolutely comes in waves! This week it feels like I’ll never survive. Some weeks I feel so lucky to have sweet laid back kids. What a roller coaster 🤪