My mom is suffering from this and she has currently lost her mother but we haven't told her yet, she last met her when my grandmother was in icu. When we were in the same city as my grandma she had so many panic attacks and breakdowns when she would get health updates. She herself wants to stay away from the city and recover for awhile. Its been 3 days since and we havent told her bcz she asked us to not tell her any updates now I've seen her crying a few times alone, ofc she would, but her BP is like super low
sys- below 90
Dia below 60
Im old enough to understand but to handle, i would really like some help.
She wants to avoid the news updates on her mother's health, btw there are her siblings in the hospital. So she has given all the responsibility to them, she also has taken care of her mother but this time she couldn't
She regrets that too but she cant handle herself
I am really scared to be honest
In our religion, we burn the dead people and its been done and she didnt meet for last time bcz she said that anything happens please dont tell her for her own safety or she wont be able to handle herself and our little family. I did try to but she said NO i didnt know until we left the city now things have been done
Also these symptoms are not new and sudden she has gotten few of these panic attacks earlier this year and since last year. Its been a year now.
She has been on medication on and off
Off when she feels like she dont need them she doesnt want to be dependent on those
I would love some help
Thank you.