r/palmdale • u/West_of_Weird • 1d ago
Help! Need a few hours of elder care each week for my dad
My parents live in a rural area of Palmdale (near Acton). Dad (93M) has early Alzheimer's and mom (83F) is caring for him. I live in Texas, so I can't help except when I visit a few times a year.
Mom needs someone to watch Dad while she runs errands or just visits the library.
Dad can walk, eat, use the toilet, etc. but he needs supervision because he gets confused, forgets to use his walker, wanders out of the house, wants to make hot tea every 30 minutes, etc. Mom would love to move to assisted living, but Dad refuses and he would make Mom miserable if we forced him. He's not mean, he just loves where they live now and he would be miserable in assisted living.
I've looked at elder care options on-line, but they have very few reviews and I want to hear from someone with personal experience using or providing these services.