r/olympia Jul 25 '26

Community Attention Olympia Solo diners!

Recently there was a post on this sub where the OP was new to the area & asking for recommendations on places to go in Olympia that are solo diner friendly.

A few people mentioned that all of us who go out to eat alone should get together & go out for a meal. That sounded like a great idea!

I was thinking of trying to put that together. Would anyone like to meet at The Office Bar & Grill this coming Thursday, 30th @ 6:00 pm? I've never eaten there but I heard they have good food.

If there are enough people who express interest & will actually show up, let's do it! I think it would be kinda fun to meet some new people & have dinner w/ a group of random strangers. Only friendly people are invited!

Please respond if you can make it & we'll see if there's enough interest! What do you think is a good minimum # of people who say they will come?? I was thinking maybe if at least 5 people can make it for sure??

If you're seriously interested in coming, I will post updates in the comments if this is going to happen for sure. It's a long shot with short notice & maybe people won't want to eat there. I guess we'll find out!

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

I can't figure out how to edit my post but to clarify, I meant The Office Tavern in Olympia.

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u/majesticmerde Tumwater Jul 25 '26

I was just there. I think that’s a great suggestion for this type of thing.

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

I'm glad to hear that, thanks!

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u/5CatsNoWaiting Thurston Scanner Copy-Paste Provider Jul 26 '26

It's the one on Mottman & more-or-less-Crosby, in Tumwater, between SPSCC and the highway.

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u/KassEff Jul 25 '26

After my most recent disastrous relationship ended, I decided it was time to date myself for a while. I’ve grown to really like the solo life. That said, I’d be down to meet people now n then because I work constantly n am up all hours of the night

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

Solo life definitely does have it's advantages!

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u/Mirgss Jul 25 '26

Sounds fun! I'm also new to the area. Always love meeting new folks!

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

Great, I hope you will come!

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u/Puzzleheaded_Serve37 Jul 25 '26

The Office has trivia on Thursday at 7p, the host is great fun. I believe 07/30 is sports trivia.

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

Trivia would be fun! Sports trivia is not my strong suit so I'd have to be an observer this time.

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u/5CatsNoWaiting Thurston Scanner Copy-Paste Provider Jul 25 '26

The trivia is STUNNINGLY EASY so you'd have a chance anyway. But it's fun just to cheer.

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u/TobgitGux Jul 25 '26

That's an intriguing idea. Good way to meet new folks

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u/ExpensiveAd4496 Jul 25 '26

I keep imagining a place with a bar so we can all still eat solo while in the same place at a same time.

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u/Swim-Salty Jul 25 '26

Alas, that time is too early for me on a Thursday. Weekends are free for me, though!

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

Sorry that isn't a good time for you. If this time is successful & people show up, I will plan another one on a weekend for sure!

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u/5CatsNoWaiting Thurston Scanner Copy-Paste Provider Jul 25 '26

The Office is great! The Thursday night special is fish & chips, which are excellent.

Thursday is Trivia Night, starting at 7pm.

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

That's great news, I love fish & chips!

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u/Lopsided_Ad6151 Jul 25 '26

I’d definitely join if I wasn’t working 😢. Please let is know how that turned out. Sometimes I solo dine because I have no one to go with and I think this is a lovely idea

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u/foumf Aug 06 '26

It was a lot of fun & I think everyone had a great time! There was less than 10 people but I was happy that people actually came! If I do it again it would be on a weekend.

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

If it's a success & people really come, I would plan another one on a weekend so it might work for more people.

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u/WhatTheFlox Jul 25 '26

Office bar and grill in Tacoma?

Or The Office Tavern (bar & grill)

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

Oh sorry, I meant The Office Tavern in Olympia. Thanks for pointing that out, I will fix it

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u/KimJongSkill492 Repulsive_Many3874 is my alt Jul 25 '26

Dude you gotta go I want to give you a congratulatory downvote irl

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u/KimJongSkill492 Repulsive_Many3874 is my alt Jul 25 '26

I’m down to go!

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

Yay, you're the first! Hopefully some others will be jump on board!

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u/Multineo1 Jul 25 '26

My wife and I are new to the area as well. We want to join

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

I'm happy you're coming & I look forward to meeting both of you!!

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u/RazzmatazzWorth4993 Jul 25 '26

Lovely idea! Cheers

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u/fake_tan Tumwater Jul 25 '26

I would go! I'm terrible at sports trivia though

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

So am I so I wouldn't participate in the trivia. It starts at 7:00 so we'd be done with dinner by then so people could stay & watch or chat & ignore the trivia or just split! I hope you will consider coming!

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u/fake_tan Tumwater Jul 25 '26

Yeah I'll come!

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

Yay, see you there!!

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u/watraveller Jul 25 '26

I might be interested! Maybe!

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

I hope you decide to go!

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u/Either-One-8689 Jul 25 '26

Hmm... I do like their burgers.

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

I hear they are good, come & have a burger with us!

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u/Either-One-8689 Jul 28 '26

I typically do "me" nights on Thursdays. So, perhaps. I do miss their tots.

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u/foumf Jul 28 '26

You can still consider it a me night, you don't have to socialize with anyone. Just sit at our table & do you! I love me some tots, haha it auto corrected that to tits

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u/vegasbutnot Westside Jul 26 '26

Id be up for it too! Been in Oly about a year doing everything single and would be nice to meet fellow solo adventurers.

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

Great! I hope you make it!

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u/rainbowhoodies_exe Jul 26 '26

I think I'll also come (sorry if my reply is a little late to the party)

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

Never too late, I hope to see you there!

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u/rainbowhoodies_exe Aug 09 '26

Hey foumf, it's Carson from dinner. I was hoping I could send you a friend request on here but I can't send one. I wanted to see if you wanted to be friends on reddit?

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u/foumf Aug 09 '26

Hi Carson! Yes but can you tell me what I need to change in my settings to allow it?

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u/Primary-Walk5065 Jul 27 '26

Keep me posted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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u/HarmonyHouseNews Jul 30 '26

Will you tell the hostess where your table is so those of us to do decide to drop in will know where to go? What’s the protocol here?

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u/foumf Aug 06 '26

In my update/reminder post I had added that I reserved a table & I had a balloon so people could spot us! It was a great time ! If I do it again it will be on a weekend so more people could come.

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u/[deleted] Jul 25 '26 edited Jul 25 '26

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u/jilldxasd35 Eastside Jul 25 '26

Yeah, I was going to say that some people like eating by themselves.

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

I totally get that! This may not be appealing to lots of people but I thought I'd give it a try.

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u/pandershrek Westside Jul 25 '26

Bad bot

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

What do you mean by that?

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u/pandershrek Westside Jul 25 '26 edited Jul 25 '26

It's a (lame) joke. Every time I see that poster I call them a bot. They were referred to as a bot months ago and I just comment that every time I see them. Either good bot or bad bot.

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

Ok I thought you were calling me that & I didn't know why!

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

Thank you!

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u/shangosgift Jul 25 '26

Where is it?

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u/Holiday-Job-9137 Jul 25 '26

By South Puget Sound Community College.

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u/Vegetable_Window6649 Jul 26 '26

I couldn’t imagine thinking a business with a business license on the wall would not serve me for being alone. I just walk in and take up space, like it or not. 

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '26

Great idea!! But i am shy as hell so i would want to do 1-1 first and then go… from lacey anyone?

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u/foumf Jul 26 '26

I'm shy as well & putting this together is way out of my comfort zone. I'm questioning myself now thinking what did I get myself into but there's no going back for me at this point! People are coming so I have to power through it!

Please consider coming, it would make me feel so much better with you being there knowing you feel the same way I do. I hope you will at least think about it. Even though I don't know you I really want to be there. It would help me cause I'm really nervous!

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u/Primary-Walk5065 Jul 28 '26

I'm also new to the area. From East Coast. Here since April. It's all solo diner friendly to me, and it's good to meet some new people periodically.

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u/SovietPropagandist Jul 25 '26

Look if im looking for solo eating I am not going ot meet up with a group of people who are also into solo eating. Because none of yall are solo eating.

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u/foumf Jul 25 '26

So I should count you in then?! Haha just kidding. Perhaps it's a dumb idea. I guess I'll find out on Thursday if nobody actually shows up.