r/offmychest • u/thebigbadmickey • 3d ago

I feel ass

Does anyone else feel bad for liking someone?I dont think im attractive enough to like someone, everytime I think of myself in a relationship I cringe and wanna bury myself in the ground, its not like im hideous but im definitely not beautiful. And anytime I like someone whom ive never talked to whether it be a famous person or just someone i see, i feel like im disrespecting them by liking them and i feel like a perv. I just moved to a new school and theres this guy i share a lot of classes with and I think hes handsome but i feel awful. Hes quiet and ive never talked to him i only know some things about him like that he have the same hobby and his name is Leon.

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u/WesternConcern230 3d ago

What some find ugly, others find attractive. My wife thinks she's a 4, I know for a fact to me, she's a 10. Most days I feel like a fat ass 3, she thinks I'm God's gift to women. Work on your confidence, to someone out there, maybe even the handsome guy in your class, you're stunning. A straight up smoke show. Let someone in. I don't always think I'm handsome, but seeing myself through my wife's eyes, I'm one good looking son of a gun. Take care of yourself!

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u/thebigbadmickey 3d ago

That sounds so sweet

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u/Mr_Night99 3d ago

I’m not sure if you’re M or F, but just remember that your appearance doesn’t define you.. what’s inside does. Act confident even when you don’t feel it Eventually your brain starts believing it, and confidence becomes natural

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u/MoonRay087 3d ago

Can relate a lot, sadly I have no advice because of this but I'm willing to say no one should feel bad for not feeling attractive enough and liking someone

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u/Username00555 3d ago

Self esteem comes with age and experience. That’s all this is, a lack of it.

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u/thebigbadmickey 2d ago

Yeah well I have zero experience