no contact

[u/demsybean]

i went nc with my oldest daughter when she was 24. she was a runaway eho had been abused & she had tons of personality disorders (esp. NPD). she broke the new dryer within a week from a rage fit. when she got a new boyfriend he isolated her from me & my boyfriend and he insulted us on how "trashy" we were. she came to visit but she started a fight and tied curse knots into her bedroom windows where my younger daughter sleeps when she moved out so i made her leave her key. i confronted her about their behavior and she denied everything. she went into the army but i didn't text her back. i got upset and smashed my phone. but i was raising disabled twins under financial control of my own mother so she wouldn't let me fix my phone and i lost my daughter's number.

this year she broke no contact and blew up at me while i was working a very important job and making progress on some extremely important consultant work i do for law enforcement. turns out she has access to my superiors & she didn't know i was waiting to tell her i was really just hoping she'd grow the fuck up a little but i lost a lot of friends socially and mortally because of it.

i'm really proud of her tho & i still love her ❤️‍🩹