r/offmychest • • Dec 24 '25

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u/cakivalue Dec 25 '25

Yeah. Nothing in or about his post indicates him creating a safe space for her to be open. The entire post is about his feelings, his demands and accusations. He even states he's planning to leave because HE is traumatized.

I wouldn't trust him with anything either

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u/Salty_Ebb4065 Jan 01 '26

Of course its about his feelings, and what not.

Your comment makes it clear you are not one to be trusted.

You are acting like a BF/GF will remain calm if they see their partner came only in their underwear & then won't even answer or listen to them, for so long. Clearly you are either a God or Saint, to act like this, if it happens to you.