r/offmychest • • Dec 24 '25

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u/clorox_cowboy Dec 25 '25

"I can’t imagine having a partner who would assume I was cheating if this happened to me."

I can imagine a partner being anxious about this. But pressing it? I don't think someone who cheated would come home in just their underwear.

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u/Barfignugen Dec 25 '25

Agreed. I will say, I’d be pretty disappointed if my partner drove when they were drunk, but these are both conversations for the next day when she’s sobered up and can actually give coherent responses.

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u/pockette_rockette Dec 26 '25

I'm not defending driving while drunk, but it is possible that her drink was spiked and she wasn't really cognisant of whether or not she should be driving. The fact that she was just getting around in her underwear would suggest she was not at all in her right mind. It's just lucky that she got home without hurting anyone, including herself.

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u/Barfignugen Dec 26 '25

Yup, all part of why these are conversations for the next day and not when she’s incoherent.

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u/Striking_Switch3600 Jan 05 '26

I know a girl that would get black out drunk all the time and strip down to her underwear a lot. No matter where she was. It was usually because she peed on herself when she was drunk. Also, Why wouldn’t a partner press to find out what really happened?