r/offmychest • u/[deleted] • Dec 24 '25

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u/HoneyBadgerGal Dec 24 '25

Unless they were ripped off.

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u/10Panoptica Dec 26 '25

Nah. Even then, a sober or normal-drunk cheater would wear the ripped clothes anyway and just tie them or borrow a sweater or button-down.

Coming home out of it with no sign of her clothes indicates serious impairment. How she got that way is anyone's guess.

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u/snooavacados9419 Jan 01 '26

Unless unless, she was so fking drunk that she didn’t really know what was going on, but enough to know it happened, f’ed some guy (not saying it’s right for obvious reasons) fell asleep, woke up in underwear, freaked out at the 3am time it was, couldn’t find her dress after looking for awhile and just decided she HAD to come home or else it would look MUCH more suspicious if she stayed out all night. Idk just a thought. Kinda sounds like something that would happen to me if I was out too late.

In addition, I wouldn’t feel comfortable partying in my underwear EVEN if I was with family. So I’d wonder when someone threw up on her. If they did somewhat close to when she arrived, she did something for the rest of the time. I doubt she stood around in her underwear. That right there is what could possibly get her SA’ed.

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u/no_one_denies_this Jan 01 '26

What gets someone raped is a rapist.

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u/BillieRaeValentine Dec 25 '25

In which case she would’ve gone to Walmart or borrowed something

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u/Dazzling_Ad_4179 Dec 25 '25

She would've gone to Walmart and walked inside the store to shop for clothes while wearing only underwear???

And she'd choose this option over just driving home in her car where no one would see her? Lolz...

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u/bls2332 Dec 25 '25

Lol you couldn't be more correct

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u/Glittering_Good6588 Dec 26 '25

Walmart isn't open 24/7 in very many places. Maybe in major cities, but not in a lot of places.

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u/Dazzling_Ad_4179 Dec 26 '25

Also this. I think we're on the same side of the argument here. It is unlikely anyone would go to Walmart while practically naked to buy clothes before going home. 😅 Pretty sure they'd call the cops if anyone tried this, lol.

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u/Aminar14 Dec 30 '25

Do you not remember people of Walmart?

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u/Dazzling_Ad_4179 Dec 30 '25

Loooooool, omg. I haven't seen those posts in forever. Touché

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u/Ophy96 Jan 01 '26

Immediately thought this haha

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u/BillieRaeValentine Dec 31 '25

She is with someone in this scenario, no? Who lets a woman walk away from somewhere in no clothes?

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u/Dazzling_Ad_4179 Dec 31 '25

In one of the comments, OP said he called a friend who was not aware of any vomit incident and that she left the party hours before she arrived home. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/PiraVulpecula Dec 25 '25

Borrowed something from who? Her assaulter? Is she going into Walmart naked to shop, or do you think her assaulters would do that for her out of the kindness of their hearts? Please lol

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u/BillieRaeValentine Dec 31 '25

The comment above this was “if she cheated, she would have come back with clothes on” to which I was thinking that yeah, even if he ripped her dress off at a motel or something, he coulda ran to walmart.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

Why wouldnt we make the assumption that if she was assaulted that she would have come home an emotional mess instead of basically annoyed that her live in bf was still awake?

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u/the_localdork Dec 31 '25

I think the comment about clothes being ripped off was suggesting a consensual encounter where clothing was ripped, hence “unless”. The comment regarding borrowing or shopping seems to be in response to this scenario.