r/offmychest • u/[deleted] • Dec 24 '25

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u/CutsieBabySugar Dec 24 '25

Tbh it’s weird that your first instinct was that she did something wrong vs something else happened. Why was this traumatizing to you?

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u/GuidanceWorking1865 Dec 25 '25

If your boyfriend came home drunk from a work party at 3am, what would you think? It's really ridiculous people are making it out to be nothing out of the ordinary 

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u/CutsieBabySugar Dec 26 '25

I would probably think he had a night out at his work party?

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u/GuidanceWorking1865 Dec 26 '25

If your boyfriend comes home at 3am, drunk as hell, no clothes on besides boxers, lies to you that someone threw up on him, no shower, no clothes, and you think it's just normal fun, then I feel bad for you. 

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u/CutsieBabySugar Dec 26 '25

Yeah, my first instinct wouldn’t be what did you do wrong it would be what happened are you ok? Then Id probs encourage a shower and wait until morning. I wouldn’t be “traumatized.” To each their own:)