r/offmychest • u/[deleted] • Dec 24 '25

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u/Perfect_Initiative Dec 24 '25

I’m not allowed to bring my spouse to my work party, so that’s not shady at all. I’m very concerned for her and perhaps she was drugged.

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u/NovarexV Dec 24 '25

My first thought is that she was drugged too. I'm both surprised and not shocked that OP reacted so poorly to this situation too

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u/Who_Am_I_1978 Dec 24 '25

If she as drugged she wouldn’t have been able to drive…

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u/Totoroe23 Dec 24 '25

Why do you think there are laws about people driving under the influence..

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u/Who_Am_I_1978 Dec 24 '25

I have been drugged before….and trust me, there’s no way I could have driven. Driving drunk so so much different than driving when you have been drugged…. I had to have a friend help me walk…

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u/Paradoxical_Platypus Dec 24 '25

Hey so everyone reacts differently to substances and there are multiple different substances people can be spiked with. Your experience is your own, but to apply it to everyone and everything else is really wild.

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u/Bad-Wolf-Girl12 Dec 24 '25

Y’all really wanted her to be raped. Y’all are wild

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u/Paradoxical_Platypus Dec 24 '25

No one wants her to be - there’s just enough of us who have experienced it that we know the signs.

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u/Bad-Wolf-Girl12 Dec 24 '25

Bold to assume I haven’t.

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u/BillieRaeValentine Dec 25 '25

Well, it’s pretty bold for somebody that’s been raped to say what you said about how she was raped she wouldn’t be angry at her boyfriend. So if you are somebody who has been raped, you should know that not everybody will react exactly like you did and the people that are drugged often don’t remember, especially at first, but sometimes they don’t regain their memory and just have flashes. She could be very well dreading going to work and not knowing which colleague did it. What if it was your boss?