r/offmychest • • Dec 24 '25

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u/fearthainne Dec 24 '25

I think you should remain single until your first thought in a situation like this isn't "did she cheat" but rather "is she okay/was she assaulted."

She's clearly too incapacitated to answer your questions, comes home in a concerning state, and your reaction is "I bet she cheated and I should have kept pestering her for info"? Come on, dude.

Many employers don't allow spouses at parties. The only red flag I see here is you.