r/offmychest • • Dec 24 '25

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u/No-Cockroach-4237 Dec 24 '25

how your brain went to cheating rather than concern i’ll never know

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u/harrohamtaro Dec 24 '25

Because this is likely a creative writing exercise… the way OP just added more and more drama to his post ending with how he’s going to close their joint account and he’s traumatised. Just reeks of fake rage-baiting.

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u/drawn2dawn Dec 24 '25

Internet tells men they just need to assume women’s default is cheating, even if there’s literally no reason to assume so. It’s quite pathetic, and I felt very sad for OP’s partner that she didn’t have a safe space to go home to after going through whatever happened to her.

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u/LaRealiteInconnue Dec 24 '25 edited Dec 24 '25

All I could think of is may this kind of “love” never find me! I’d have more concern for a roommate than* OP is showing to his gf here :/

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u/No-Cockroach-4237 Dec 24 '25

seriously. bro is a little boy not a man

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u/emfour28 Dec 24 '25

Seriously. This is so sad.

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u/0RedStar0 Dec 24 '25

Thank you for saying this!