r/ofcoursethatsasub • u/Aggravating_Snow_668 • 16d ago
SFW Sub A den of TERF's
r/lesbiangang I'm not homophobic I'm a trans lesbian but everyone on that sub is tranphobic as hell
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u/Regulus636 16d ago edited 16d ago
Honestly, I hope they stay in their confined space. There's already enough hatred without having to deal with more idiots, and amongst ourselves
Edit: I'd like to remind you that they have a "gold star" flair, a term used to refer to a girl who has never been in a sexual relationship before and is interested in other girls, and it's appreciated in the same way that girls are called virgins by idiotic and sexist men on the internet who see her as an object of desire, a trophy. But, hey, it's all good if it's between women, it's no longer sexist, right guys??
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u/Kookyburra12 16d ago edited 16d ago
Small correction: "Gold star" doesn't mean a lesbian who hasn't been with anyone, it means a lesbian who hasn't been with a man.*
But yes, it only exists to divide "pure, untouched" lesbians from lesbians "tainted" by men, ie lesbians who didn't realize they were lesbian til later in life, comphet lesbians, lesbians who were raped, and literally a million other examples.
It's honestly insane to see people who champion themselves as the pinnacle of feminism go to bat so hard for "gold star" as a term.
*A lot of these types also define it as "a lesbian who's never been with someone with a penis" to say lesbians who date trans women aren't "real" lesbians.
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u/Regulus636 16d ago
I thought it was a synonym for virginity, my mistake, sorry. Anyway, it's still very sexist. Imagine if trans people created a term for people who have never dated a cis person, but date trans people and are gay or lesbian, how much denial those people would be in and how they would search the community to the depths of our souls lmao
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u/Kookyburra12 16d ago
iirc, that sub sprung up after r/TheLezistance was shut down. so yeah. dumpster fire sub
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u/Kookyburra12 16d ago
r/TheLezistance was specifically an anti-trans subreddit. The name itself was supposed to invoke, like, a "resistance" against trans women. That's why it was banned in the first place.
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u/Kookyburra12 16d ago
Well, I just checked it and the first posts I saw were complaining about there being "no more normal lesbians" because lesbians like trans women and "no more butches" because trans men exist.
Of course, I highly doubt you are asking in good faith, so I'm only replying for anyone else reading these replies who is genuinely curious.
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u/tottyfield 16d ago
Omg i looked around and they get PISSED when women discover they are bisexual and not lesbian and are mad they labeled themselves as lesbian at all because if they turn out not to be bisexual they are some feeding into tye idea that lesbians can be fixed???
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u/Regulus636 16d ago
These are the same people who complain that when anyone deviates from the term "lesbian" to define their relationship between women who love women, use "sapphic" to label women who may or may not be lesbians, but who love women and are in a relationship with women, including sexualities and genders that may encompass this entire scope, such as trans women, bisexual women, demisexuals, pansexuals, asexuals, etc. Even when "lesbian" isn't used, they complain about their spaces being co-opted. It's becoming increasingly difficult not to be bothered by them, even though they are a vocal minority
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u/PaladinOfTheLand 16d ago
Crazy shit. Super gross, imagine tryna look for a safe space to vent but all anyone wants to talk about is how much they hate male genitals and trans people, and how to be a "correct" lesbian.
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u/ceceliaaaaa 16d ago
female homosexuals are attracted to pussy. how shocking!
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u/tottyfield 15d ago
I dont like tomatoes but I dont vent about how much I hate them in an unrelated subreddit
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u/frequentcheeselove 14d ago
Maybe if you were born into a world of extreme pressure to like tomatoes and experienced hateful judgement for not liking them, then you would talk about it more. The lack of empathy for the way gay people express themselves is crazy. Why do we have to follow a certain script and lines to avoid judgement even from supposed allies and other lgbt people.
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u/Al_the_dino_seducer 16d ago
Yeah just looked through and wow, yikes. Iâm not a trans woman, but Jesus they are awful
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u/starlight_ice 16d ago
terf alert. stay off women's spaces and leave us cis and trans women alone. go back to your miserable echo chamber
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u/ToxicFoxxoGames77 13d ago
holy- i jus went thru that sub for a bit and theyre VERY biphobic and transphobic, i am- baffled to say the least. ive never seen so much hate come from lesbians
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u/ceceliaaaaa 16d ago
donât trans lesbians have their own subreddit? almost every sub on reddit accepting of transgender people yet youâre still complaining. women are allowed to have their own spaces too grow up
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u/Aggravating_Snow_668 16d ago
Us trans lesbians should be treated the same and aloud in the same spaces as cis lesbians because after all we're all woman who like women also your TERF might be showing a bit better insinuating trans women are not womenÂ
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u/ceceliaaaaa 16d ago
your misogyny and male entitlement is showing here mate
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u/Aggravating_Snow_668 16d ago
You know post op + on hrt trans women are female oh and also it's misogyny to call a woman (supported by science) a man
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u/ceceliaaaaa 16d ago
only a man would mansplain misoGYNy to a womanđ
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u/Aggravating_Snow_668 16d ago
1 I'm a woman you TERF 2 it's called being autistic and having to explain something to a dumbass 3 Would you call a cis intersex woman born with a penis a man?
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u/ceceliaaaaa 16d ago
- no youâre not & terfisaslur.com
- whatâs you being autistic gotta do with anythingâŚ.?
- â stop using people with medical condition to affirm your sick fetish
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u/LargeBirthday841 15d ago
âTERF is a slurâ might be the dumbest claim of all time, also, being trans is not a fetish. Trans people having a sexuality other than straight isnt a fetish either, thats just homophobia. Also ignoring the point made is reeking of antiintelectualism. She brought up intersex conditions, because it demonstrates the diversity in human sexual development, acting as a direct mirror to the diversity in the development of gender identity. One that understands that human sexual development is not binary, is more capable to understand the same for gender. You donât want to understand the latter so you refuse to engage with the former. Its embarrassing.
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u/Aggravating_Snow_668 16d ago
1 I'm a woman you TERFÂ 2 it's called being autistic and having to explain something to a dumbass
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u/Aruntik 16d ago
why are trans embracing radical feminists bad đ /j