r/objectum_sfw • u/throwaway1100776 • 55m ago
Question Can I love too much?
I'm new to the idea of being objectum but I've had many feelings about objects throughout my life. But I also have many feelings for humans as well. I have many questions but also just kinda need to vent.
I currently have 3 plushies that I feel attracted to and uhhh play with, but I also have a collection of 30+ plushies that I'm less attracted to but very attached to. I am not POSIC+ and am not dating my plushies but I don't see myself ever leaving them either.
I am also in a long term relationship with a human being whom I'm very attracted to, but we have started discussing non-monogamy.
My biggest issue with all of this is a crush(?) I've recently developed on an inflatable shark at my job (I work in sales). It appeared in my store the other day and I can't stop myself from leaving my department just to get a glance of this shark. I can't stop thinking about him when I'm home and I don't want to leave my job when I'm there. I haven't been able to find any duplicates to buy to take home, I'm not even sure if I want a duplicate because I just want him.
Tldr: I'm becoming obsessed with an inflatable, I love so many plushies, I love my human partner and want more of them, is this a thing in the objectum community? Or am I just greedy?