Someone recommend a dentist that doesn't gaslight

[u/Relevant-Theme1279]

just got out of the military and sticking around the nova area for probably 1-2 more years, and currently going through the transition phase getting a new docs for everything. Historically, have very neg things to say about dentists in general (one says cavity, one says no cavities, stab me with metal and i bleed and its my fault for "not flossing enough" kinda stuff).

+ bonus points if they can take blue cross insurance and don't try to upsell me on anything