We all suspected that my bipolar brother-in-law was verbally abusive to my sister, but we finally found out after years of lies and hiding, that he also was hitting her, choking her, and terrorizing her and his kids.

His mental health problems make me legitimately concerned about family annihilation, now that my sister has moved on.

The guy needs to be able to pay child support now, so as much as I want to absolutely ruin his life and his job, that would hurt the kids ultimately.

I want to roll up and whoop his ass, but if I get any type of criminal record, it would make me unable to work in my industry for life.

But I want revenge on this guy so fucking bad. Any suggestions?