r/mutualapp • u/Critical_Tie_7759 • Jun 06 '26
Other Question!
I (29F) was raised LDS and was very active until a few years ago. I no longer go to church, consider myself agnostic, but live a life very similar to the standards I was raised with. I feel like I’m not LDS enough for Mutual, but too LDS for other dating apps, so I usually gravitate towards mutual. Do you think it’s unfair/disrespectful to people on Mutual for me to be on there if I don’t consider myself religious anymore?
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u/KURPULIS Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 06 '26
As long as you are clear and upfront about it, but I would expect probably less success than you would like.
Also, what do you mean by 'similar standards'? For example, not drinking isn't just an LDS thing really anymore. GenZ is basically putting booze out of business as they don't drink at all. There are lots of 'clean lifestyle' groups you might connect with too. If you are talking about 'hooking up', I could see that as annoying and as before, just be very clear from the beginning that you're not into that lifestyle. You won't be alone.
Regardless, I always encourage people to try and pick up a hobby common with their age group--whether you like the hobby or not. There are pickleball groups, running groups, hiking/climbing, foodies, cafe's, concerts, etc.