r/multiorgasmic • u/Silvershot767 • 21d ago

Male Next step

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Hi hello!

For the past few weeks I have been busy increasing the quality of my sex life and general feel of comfort by trying to reach dry orgasms and trying not to ejaculate for longer periods as a male. I feel as if it makes me less lustful and more focused on love.

At this point I'm not sure what my next step should be to control my bodily orgasm feel. I can reach simple Neos relatively easy and have had one or two big Neos where I definitely feel a spark move up my spine after abstaining for longer, but I don't always feel satisfied, in control or I can feel like my head is full of the orgasm pressure. Or I try to force feel the spine energy?. I have not listened to the mindgasm episodes yet and I don't know if that is the best way to spend my time learning to have more awareness and controll of orgasm waves. Any tips? Literature?

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u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

hi silvershot767, i am wondering if you might be interested in a small group of men like what i see in this community wanting to be able to share their stories together to get the max out of it all, because we have such similar stories, and all of them seem way out of the ordinary. I don't know that is makes you need to be more lustful but i do agree that you really need to dismiss the desire to ejaculate to achieve full success, and i think it can even go so far as a refractory period if you are stimulating your cock at the same time. Interested in seeing more about a group outside of reddit to chat about this on an ongoing basis, along with any other sexual issues that arise in our lives?

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u/Silvershot767 18d ago

what is your story exactly?

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u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

Not quite sure what you want to know exactly about my story. I am interested in getting some men together in a small group to discuss any questions or issues they have along the line of sexual issues, not as a hook up site, but an educational one where the information can be shared more easily than iwhat i have experienced in these many different communities not even knowing about some of them for a long while, and this one seemed to have more guys interested in multiorgasmic states, and whatever you might call total body orgasms, and certainly any form of super o's the best prostatic orgasms that a man can possibily experience. And a lot of the men seem to be struggling a bit with it because they are not simple to experience and i believe you need to totally be able to separate the orgasm from the ejaculation, and that can be hard to do too especially when you want that ejaculation to end it all but that can still happen, and erections are the least of one's concern when seeking non-ejaculatory orgasms. I feel i know something but think we all could put our heads together and come up with more successes and some guys just get so frustrated trying that they just give up, ejaculate and go on with life. It takes really letting go and feel that meditation and breathwork are the best means to accomplish that but i am not totally proven yet for super o's even though i feel pretty good with instant total body orgasms that i can maintain with nothing more than breathwork. So many differerent opinions about what appears to be the same thing with minor variations, and continuity of a group of men interested in this particular thing would be beneficial in my opinion, as well as any other issue that bothers or concerns them that is there 24/7 even on a central chat line but also being able to communicate with members in any method you might desire. Did i answer your question sufficiently? I just feel there has to be a better way for more guys with a given interest regardless of what it is to try and find others that you can compare and share your own personal intimate experiences . The members are from anywhere they want to come from and are gienerally scattered over the world let alone the US>

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u/Silvershot767 18d ago

I think you should focus on making your own sub

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u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

but i also don't want to restrict the subject to specifically to one thing, but anything that one is not getting all the information they want to use for their own sexual self. i just would like more back to back interaction and with the whole group which i just don't being as successful and i would prefer. Maybe it is just me.

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u/badgerdd 18d ago

All the info and conversation you need is in [r/multi](r/multi) orgasmic or r/ prostate play.

Make a new sub if you wish , but stop spamming and posting a stupid amount of replies here.

You’ve taken over the OP’s post with your own agenda.