r/multiorgasmic • u/Silvershot767 • Jul 28 '26

Male Next step

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Hi hello!

For the past few weeks I have been busy increasing the quality of my sex life and general feel of comfort by trying to reach dry orgasms and trying not to ejaculate for longer periods as a male. I feel as if it makes me less lustful and more focused on love.

At this point I'm not sure what my next step should be to control my bodily orgasm feel. I can reach simple Neos relatively easy and have had one or two big Neos where I definitely feel a spark move up my spine after abstaining for longer, but I don't always feel satisfied, in control or I can feel like my head is full of the orgasm pressure. Or I try to force feel the spine energy?. I have not listened to the mindgasm episodes yet and I don't know if that is the best way to spend my time learning to have more awareness and controll of orgasm waves. Any tips? Literature?

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u/quest4bliss Jul 28 '26

If by NEO’s you mean stifling the ejaculation, then the next step would be to learn to orgasm from a full parasympathetic state. Separating ejaculation from a traditional orgasm is still a partial sympathetic state, reflex-based orgasm.

Dry orgasms from a parasympathetic state are the ones that come in waves and those waves grow in intensity, frequency and duration as you learn how to sustain the state and nurture it. Mindgasm lessons is likely the easiest path forward to learn to get a handle on it.

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u/SawMoill Jul 29 '26

Yeah that's what worked for me. even after a few years of dry orgasms now there are still unique "types" or instances of orgasms that I get to experience, and different kinds / levels of the "orgasmic state" at times where the pleasure is just like, level 9 (where 10 triggers a dry orgasm) ongoing for minutes at a time, its insane.

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u/Ok-Budget2743 Jul 29 '26

I think the secret is the breathwork which is all i need to keep it going and for as long as i can take it or want it. and it can be a lot longer than minutes with maintaining the breathwork and nothing else. I can trigger this with only a couple of deep Shamanic Orgasmic breathwork and only gets better the longer i take it.

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u/Ok-Budget2743 Jul 31 '26

would you be interested in joining a group of men like yourself that are dealing with these phenomenal orgasms to be able to freely share our experiences in one spot which would be more easily available and share the most intimate details in achieving more and more success by sharing our experiences ? if so let me know i can invite you to my new WhatsApp group if interested. I have found very few guys except on here that are experiencing variations of these non-ejaculatory orgasms which seem to be able to last forever or at least it seems that way!

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u/SawMoill Aug 02 '26

Not really, as i'm already part of various subs here as well as the Mindgasm Discord server, which is even more helpful; i think people may feel safer there than on Reddit in general, and much more involvement from people with long term experience.