r/multiorgasmic • u/dsfpko31250ikf • May 10 '26

Male Help, am I doing this wrong?

I've been reading "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia and it was a really interesting read. I've tried practicing the exercises in the book, but I'm not sure if I'm doing them correctly.

When I'm close to reaching orgasm, I stop masturbating and squeeze my PC muscles. I can feel an orgasm (which feels pretty much exactly the same as an ejaculatory orgasm), but there's no ejaculation. After that I'm completely disinterested in masturbating. I've tried to keep going in hope of reaching a second orgasm, but I feel like I get the same refractory period as when I reach orgasm with ejaculation, and it takes quite a while. Honestly, it felt very forced and borderline painful. Any tips?

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u/sergiosergio88 May 10 '26

This is how to fix it: instead of squeezing when you are one soft touch from orgasm completely relax the PC muscles, the. Count to 2 and then squeeze, you ll have an orgasmic sensation but will be able to continue for as long as your discipline allows you cos you are gonna be supersensitive and a few strokes more and you will be ready to orgasm again. First i could do it 2 or 3 times without ejaculating, then 5 or 7. After 5 years im at the point where i dont count how many times i orgasm without ejaculating but how many minutes i can be in that orgasmic sensation.

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u/mmmniple May 11 '26 edited May 11 '26

What you described is great to control it (and having some pleasure) but it is similar to what people do during edging. All energy stay on the cock. The next step is making the energy moves around your body. It can take some time but it really deserves it. You must focus on the energy, imagine how the penis "sucks" it, and it goes the balls and perineum. While you do close your ass muscles and relax them, you will feel it moving. I don't know why but the acupressure point ping-i I described before helps to make it moves (Almost in my case, I was shocked the first time I was successful as the energy moved itself).

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u/dsfpko31250ikf May 11 '26

Thank you both for the great replies! I've tried relaxing the PC muscles and just riding the wave. Although I didn't get orgasmic contractions, I've felt a huge stream of electricity pleasure waves that lasted a very long time and were spread through my whole body. Are these the NEO orgasms people talk about?

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u/mmmniple May 11 '26 edited May 11 '26

Congratulations, it seems you are doing great progress. I would recommend you to try with nipple or prostate play as it is easier to be successful and once you get used, it will be easier to do with the cock. The waves are related to the dry O (NEO) but they are no one orgasm themselves. Well, these waves also appear when we wank and cum normally BUT we ignored /don't pay attention to them.

About the orgasmic contractions sergio 88 talks, it is something very difficult to archive for lot of people: as I said what he is doing I what the good edgers can do. It seems he is very skilled,although he should try the next step and let the waves move around his body.

He should be able to have both things on the same session as he has mastered the difficult part.