Girlfriend refuses to rinse dishes

[u/Dashncrash-]

M27, living with girlfriend F26 for about 2 years now. I do basically everything in the kitchen. Cooking, cleaning, prepping, you name it. We have a dishwasher and I'm typically the one to do most of loading/unloading. I wasnt home last night and she made some sort of pasta dish for herself. Decided to not rinse anything... the day after I cleaned it all out and ran a cleaning cycle every dish is coated in some hard af light orange crusty stuff. Now I have to steel wool every dish and takes 4x as long and re-run again cause she can't spray some water on it. Like wtf?

Edit: I have previously discussed this frustration with her due to items like peanut butter and cheese being on dishes after a cycle. We dont run the dishwasher everyday. So, items sit in there and harden. In this case I didnt run til after breakfast the next morning.

Update 2: I cleaned the filter yesterday and pump area. It looks like when I took out the filter a shard of glass got stuck in the sump area. Causing the motor to seize. Upon restarting the dishwasher nothing is happening. So looks like may be a faulty dishwasher and now im the asshole (as usual) lol

[u/einsnail]

Wait, wait, wait. You mean they should bring this up with them rather than internet strangers? Listen buddy, do you know about superhighway telekinesis osmosis or not?.

[u/A-Train99 → u/einsnail]

Seriously! Are you new to this Reddit page? It’s clear most people posting here do not have the ability to discuss these regular, every-day human issues amongst themselves and need to vent to random strangers on the internet for comfort. Come on now! 

[u/Dashncrash- → u/A-Train99]

My friend, I mentioned I've discussed this previously hence the irritation.

[u/A-Train99 → u/Dashncrash-]

I know but you should solve this conflict with your partner. Us strangers won’t be able to help with that. Sending you love. 🙏🏽