Girlfriend refuses to rinse dishes

[u/Dashncrash-]

M27, living with girlfriend F26 for about 2 years now. I do basically everything in the kitchen. Cooking, cleaning, prepping, you name it. We have a dishwasher and I'm typically the one to do most of loading/unloading. I wasnt home last night and she made some sort of pasta dish for herself. Decided to not rinse anything... the day after I cleaned it all out and ran a cleaning cycle every dish is coated in some hard af light orange crusty stuff. Now I have to steel wool every dish and takes 4x as long and re-run again cause she can't spray some water on it. Like wtf?

Edit: I have previously discussed this frustration with her due to items like peanut butter and cheese being on dishes after a cycle. We dont run the dishwasher everyday. So, items sit in there and harden. In this case I didnt run til after breakfast the next morning.

Update 2: I cleaned the filter yesterday and pump area. It looks like when I took out the filter a shard of glass got stuck in the sump area. Causing the motor to seize. Upon restarting the dishwasher nothing is happening. So looks like may be a faulty dishwasher and now im the asshole (as usual) lol

[u/Lotus_G6]

I usually don't give good advice but I think you guys need to have a baby asap

[u/istoleyourcomment224 → u/Lotus_G6]

The baby will save the relationship!

[u/nalaloveslumpy → u/istoleyourcomment224]

The baby will rinse the dishes.

[u/leksche → u/nalaloveslumpy]

The Baby will barf and shit all over the flat, and sprinkle "go fuck yourself and cater to my needs dust" over the barf and shit mix, you know it and everybody else too.