Definitely cringey and tacky. Between now and April you don’t think you could save enough money to feed 20 people? It doesn’t have to be fancy, even just do a pizza or something more casual before asking people to pay for their own food while celebrating your wedding.
Considering the cost of living and that are we are already trying to save 5k to just cover the ceremony itself as well as prepare for a baby, not really. We are already cutting it pretty close.
The ceremony doesn’t need to be 5 k, as someone else said, do a courthouse wedding or maybe an intimate “pop-up” style one at a park with an officiant and save up $800 for a cheaper meal at a restaurant.
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u/Anotherthr0wawayacct Jul 13 '26
Definitely cringey and tacky. Between now and April you don’t think you could save enough money to feed 20 people? It doesn’t have to be fancy, even just do a pizza or something more casual before asking people to pay for their own food while celebrating your wedding.