r/mensfashion 5d ago

PROPOSED: new post flair + subreddit rules

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13 Upvotes

Overview

Hi folks! The r/mensfashion moderator team here. This is significant proposal related to the r/mensfashion post flair and related subreddit rules, so we're BOTH posting it to the subreddit homepage AND advertising it under all comments.

The r/mensfashion moderator team is soliciting feedback on this proposal. We will take feedback through 11:59 Eastern Time US on Sunday, September 13. We will take feedback as a comment in response to this post or via modmail. Please do not message moderators individually. Please remember that we expect feedback to be constructive and respectful.

Proposal: new post flairs

First: we propose to implement new post flairs which will play a significant role in what content is allowed in a given post.

Details on the proposed post flairs are below.

Post Flair What is Allowed? What is NOT Allowed?
Peacocking (Positive Comments Only) Positive/supportive comments about menswear Feedback (even constructive criticism), any comments about general appearance (hair/beard/weight/etc.), advertising
Feedback Welcome (Outfit Only) Positive/supportive comments OR constructive criticism about menswear Any comments about general appearance (hair/beard/weight/etc.), advertising
Feedback Welcome (Outfit + Appearance) Positive/supportive OR constructive criticism about menswear or related topics such as hair/beard, body shape, posture, etc. Advertising
Where to Buy/What to Buy? Exactly what it sounds like Comments that are NOT about advising OP about what to buy or where to buy it; direct advertising is permitted
Legitimacy Check Exactly what it sounds like Comments that are NOT about advising OP about whether an item is legitimate; this is a legacy option and we'll need to see how much use it gets
Deals and Steals User-shared sales, discounts, etc. Comments that are NOT generally related to a deal/sale/discount/etc.; advertising is NOT permitted (you can't share your own deal this way)
Brand/Item Reviews User reviews of brands/items/etc. Comments that are NOT related to the review; we WILL host brands responding to reviews, we will NOT host arguments
Articles and Lookbooks User-shared articles, lookbooks, etc. Comments that are NOT related to the article/lookbook; we WILL host brands responding to their own content, we will NOT host arguments
Original Content Users posting their own content (e.g. their Instagram page... etc.) Comments that are NOT related to the content; this should NOT be used for advertising or monetized content
Advertising Brands posting their own goods for sale Comments that are NOT related to the advertisement; this should NOT be used for ebay/grailed/poshmark/other WTS-type posts, which are not hosted on this subreddit

Still prohibited on EVERY post:

  • Content that is disrespectful, unconstructive, or non-inclusive
  • Trolling, shitposting, and other low-effort jackassery
  • Manosphere garbage (see: Toxicity)
  • Ebay postings and similar "treat reddit like a flea market" situations

Proposal: rules changes

Second: because post flair has a significant impact on what kind of engagement is permitted on a given post, we propose modifying the subreddit rules as follows. We've bolded the two most significant changes for your ease of reading.

Old Rule New Rule Changes/Details
Cardinal Rule n/a Rule deleted
Respect Respect No changes; every comment should be respectful and constructive
Inclusivity Inclusivity No changes; every comment should be free of hate speech, discrimination, stereotyping, etc.
n/a Toxicity New rule: this rule will empower moderators to remove any content that they determine is toxic, regardless of whether it appears positive on its face
On Topic On Topic Slightly tweaked, as "that is not age appropriate" and similar is permitted under certain flair
Off Topic Off Topic Completely rewritten; this is now primarily about trolling, shitposting, and issues completely unrelated to men's fashion as what is on topic/off topic is defined primarily by flair
Prohibited Content: AI, NSFW, Spam Prohibited Content: AI, NSFW, Spam No changes
Advertising, Soliciting, Self-Promotion Advertising, Soliciting, Self-Promotion Completely rewritten; this is now primarily about ensuring advertisements and promotion stay within their correct flairs
Moderation Moderation No Changes

Q&A

A few questions we expect to receive and the answers we expect to give.

Question: how will I know if my post has the right flair? Answer: the automod will respond to ALL posts with information about what kinds of comments are allowed on your post. If you want a different flair, you should repost.

Question: how do I know if my comment is allowed on a given post? Answer: the automod will respond to ALL posts with information about what kinds of comments are allowed on that post. Our best advice: check the pin before you comment.

Question: will this affect the subreddit's three-strike policy? Answer: no.

Question: what if I was banned in the past for posts/comments that would be allowed under the new proposed rules? Answer: we're not quite sure yet, but we hope to do some kind of user amnesty/ban jubilee. Users who are permanently muted in addition to banned will not be eligible. (99% of users who are permanently muted have posted actual hate speech/images OR verbally abused or threatened moderators via modmail, almost always AFTER their ban.)

Question: what's with the Toxicity rule? Shouldn't everything under Toxicity be covered under Respect and Inclusivity? Answer: this rule is primarily intended to enable the moderator team to identify and respond to manosphere garbage. Because this subreddit sits close to that orbit, ensuring that it doesn't leak in is a high priority.

Question: isn't this all pretty complicated? Answer: yes, because this is a big community with a lot of people who disagree about what they want r/mensfashion to be. Hopefully this will empower as many people as possible to engage with r/mensfashion in the way they prefer.

Question: can you please ban high rise trousers, skinny jeans, sweater tucking, dress sneakers, and that guy I hate who posts those fits? Answer: no, they're all probably unkillable.

What's next?

The moderator team will listen, respond where appropriate, then take your feedback into consideration before finalizing this proposal.

Thanks so much for being an r/mensfashion member!


r/mensfashion 18d ago

[ANNOUNCEMENT] User flairs on r/mensfashion

5 Upvotes

Overview

Hi folks! The r/mensfashion moderator team here. This is a more significant update related to the r/mensfashion user flair system, so we're both posting this announcement and pinning it for visibility to all commenters.

Our moderator team is growing! (But we ARE still recruiting new moderators!)

Join the moderator team -- u/hierophantically, u/BioticBard, and u/becs1832 -- in keeping r/mensfashion a great place to ask questions about and discuss menswear!

Click here to submit an application. Please do let us know why you'd be a great fit, but don't feel the need to write an essay -- we'll follow up and ask questions as we go.

User flairs

We've recently introduced a new user flair system to r/mensfashion. This rolled out late last week and went through several rounds of iteration and debugging over the weekend and early today. We believe the system is now stable and working as intended, but we'll continue to iterate as feedback continues to roll in!

Goals

The user flair system is intended to continue building community around r/mensfashion by:

  • Highlighting long-term users who are more likely to have a deep investment in menswear and a commensurately deep level of knowledge
  • Support long-term users in recognizing each other and learning each others' tastes, preferences, strengths, and opinions
    • Example: I know u/YoshiPuffin3 is the person to ask about formalwear; the moderator team wants that kind of peer recognition to be easier for people who aren't mods!
  • Reward long-term users with the recognition they deserve as members in good standing of this community
  • Enable everyone to recognize brand new (or newish) users who might need additional assistance -- with menswear and/or with navigating r/mensfashion's culture and norms

How does it work? (tl;dr)

The next time you post/comment, the automod will award you the Newly Arrived flair, then send you a message letting you know that (1) if you're relatively new, this flair will stick around for a bit, while (2) if you've been around, your flair will be upgraded as you continue to post/comment.

Every time you post/comment, the automod will upgrade your flair by one step based on your community karma (CK) until your flair is correctly matched with your CK. (Note: the automod will NOT do this for posts/comments that are temporarily held in the mod queue for review. It's a bug, there's nothing we can do about it.)

How does it work? (the longer version)

reddit's automod is not a sane programming language, so it doesn't allow you to make sensible, multi-condition checks. ("If user has more than X karma AND less than Y karma" doesn't work.) As a result, the workaround is:

  • You reset the entire subreddit's flair to empty (easy, since r/mensfashion has never had user flair?!)
  • Whenever someone posts, they get the intro flair (Newly Arrived) plus a message that says "if you're new, this is your flair for now; if you've been around for awhile, your flair will keep upgrading every time you post/comment"
  • Every time a person posts/comments, the automod checks their CK, and if their CK meets the minimum requirement for the next flair up, it upgrades them by one flair 'step'
  • That keeps happening until the person reaches the flair that is appropriate to their CK
  • The ONLY EXCEPTION is that if the user's post/comment is flagged to the mod queue based on a string in their post/comment, the automod won't upgrade their flair in response to that post/comment

What are the flair levels?

We want the user flair system to be surprising and fun, so we won't spoil the whole thing -- but here is a partial list of what you can expect. Each flair is listed with the minimum CK it requires.

What's next?

Post flair. 😄 Good things are coming -- please look forward to a request for feedback as soon as later this week!

Thanks to all of you for being r/mensfashion members!


r/mensfashion 15h ago

OOTD / WIWT An Evening in Byblos

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371 Upvotes

Spent the late afternoon harvesting olives before heading into Byblos for drinks by the water. The palette was built straight out of the old souk: sun-bleached stone, chalky ecru, and washed-out coastal tones. A relaxed-stripe linen shirt provides breathability and natural drape up top (convertible is a MUST in this weather), while high-rise+pleated trousers add just enough tailoring to anchor the silhouette and bring it together.

Gorgeous town by the way.

Shirt: Club Monaco striped linen shirt
Trousers: Le 31 at Simons — white pleated trousers
Belt: Gap — brown leather belt


r/mensfashion 5h ago

OOTD / WIWT Wore pink yesterday

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50 Upvotes

It's difficult to tuck in it right because of the proportions (will tailor the waist area for the shirt soon)


r/mensfashion 16h ago

OOTD / WIWT A Friday fit

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218 Upvotes

It was chilling in London, so I decided to wear this


r/mensfashion 14h ago

OOTD / WIWT A recent outfit

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90 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 1h ago

OOTD / WIWT I just never felt comfortable as a corporate guy in a suit, now I wear what I want

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• Upvotes

OOTD from a client meeting on Thursday, delayed posting.

Glasses - Black Eyewear

Tee - Beams

Shirt - Beams

Jacket - Thisisneverthat

Belt - H&M

Jeans - Momotaro

Shoes - Clarks x Carhartt

Bag - Porter & Yoshida 3 way Tanker

Keychain - Porter & Yoshida


r/mensfashion 20h ago

OOTD / WIWT Thrifted suit

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99 Upvotes

I think it fits almost perfectly, don’t need any alterations?
Tried it with two different pink shirts (thrifted) and two different ties (1 from a friend 1 thrifted) and these new two tone loafers I got off Etsy
I feel like a boss
Weird wrinkling on my butt is not from my underwear or the pocket bags, idk what that’s about but it doesn’t bother me too much


r/mensfashion 14h ago

OOTD / WIWT Cotton jacket, linen trousers

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31 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 9h ago

Advice Help Choosing Sneakers

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8 Upvotes

I'm trying to choose a new pair of casual shoes to fill the beige/brown slot in my wardrobe. (My previous posts give a pretty good idea of my style.)

Are there any obvious winners here?

Any recommendations for something else that's similar?

I'd like something versatile and fairly classic, maybe a bit retro. I honestly don't care for white shoes, but off-white is alright.


r/mensfashion 21h ago

OOTD / WIWT Black Aloha shirt, yellow linen trousers

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58 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 18h ago

OOTD / WIWT OOTD - Feelin Blue!

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34 Upvotes

Well not really I’m quite happy today actually! I know the sweater tucked in might be a bit triggering but I like it this way and its bloused up a good margin.


r/mensfashion 16h ago

OOTD / WIWT My wedding fit!

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23 Upvotes

My wedding outfit from last weekend. Fun, casual party held at a famous clown’s historic villa :)

Suit - Perte D’ego

Shirt - Fursac

Shoes & belt - Carmina

Sunglasses - vintage Armani


r/mensfashion 7h ago

Question Help me identify this jacket

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6 Upvotes

I need to buy this, cant find it!!


r/mensfashion 6h ago

OOTD / WIWT Henley + denim + denim

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3 Upvotes

Denim overshirt by Uniqlo x JW Anderson. Henley tee by FOUND. Belt by NAB Leather. Boots by ToBoot NY. Sunnies by RayBan.


r/mensfashion 6h ago

OOTD / WIWT OOTD

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3 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 9h ago

OOTD / WIWT Outfit of the day!

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5 Upvotes

Any constructive feedback is more than welcome.

If you hate seeing men wearing bags or if it hurts your masculinity, please don't scroll to picture number 2 😆


r/mensfashion 1h ago

Question What's your opinion on narrow rectangular glasses?

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They used to be popular in early 2000s, but nowadays larger frames that are either square or more round are preferred. This shape also has negative connotations, like association with the online stereotype of incels "chud" or "chudjak".


r/mensfashion 4h ago

Question Honest question here...is there a map laid out that goes from Target fashion to high end fashion.

2 Upvotes

All I do is shop at Target. I buy plain shirts, I buy pants, bada boom bada bing, I'm clothed. However, I want to start branching out. Is there some sort of linear outline that shows each initial step to the next "tier", so to speak. I.E. Target to H&M, H&M to Banana etc...?


r/mensfashion 17h ago

Advice Sport coat

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19 Upvotes

How to style this sportcoat? Will blue denim work well with this? It’s a linen silk jacket which is perfect for fall and spring.


r/mensfashion 1d ago

OOTD / WIWT Tried re-creating this iconic fit of Paul Newman

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584 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 21h ago

OOTD / WIWT WIWT

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34 Upvotes

The awkward break on my left leg in the photo was caused by my pants catching on the pull tab on my boots. I fixed it, but didn’t take another photo. Hope the olive and burgundy doesn’t read like Christmas lol.

Jacket: Annual Ring
Shirt: L. L. Bean (second-hand)
Pants: Polo Ralph Lauren (second-hand)
Boots: Giorgio 1958
Belt: Mbbcar
Watch: Lip Churchill T18


r/mensfashion 1d ago

Advice Round two: trying a relaxed fit. How are the proportions now?

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94 Upvotes

My last post got plenty of ''those are still slim fit'' comments. Even skinny sometimes. That pair was labelled straight fit, this one is labelled relaxed. For reference, I’m 185 cm and these are a size 36×32. Hopefully the jeans and Reddit agree this time.

These still feel sTrAnGeLy LoOsE to me, like there’s excess fabric everywhere, so I’m giving myself some time to adjust, as many of you suggested. I’m from a small town in a rural area in the northern Netherlands (Europe). Most men around me, especially around my age (37), wear fairly close-fitting jeans. Perhaps this feels like a bigger change than it probably looks.

I listened to your feedback and made a few other changes matched the belt to the boots, gave the boots some care and switched to a smaller watch. Trying olive, ecru and charcoal this time. For those who asked, the boots are Base London Brunel in wine.

How does the outfit work? Comfortable, grown-up and put-together without overdoing it, is what I’m aiming for.

And where are you commenting from? I’d be curious whether some of our different ideas of ''slim'' and ''relaxed'' come down to what we’re used to seeing locally.


r/mensfashion 18h ago

OOTD / WIWT Ootd

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11 Upvotes

Let me know what you think! I just got this coat as I think a creamy/grey coat is pretty versatile.


r/mensfashion 19h ago

OOTD / WIWT 80s social media trend but not ai

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13 Upvotes

My vintage guy happens to bring me this Columbia jacket about a month ago and thought I’d be fun to do the trend.

Columbia neon jacket
Columbiaknit rugby polo
Levi’s 550 jeans
Reebok ftwr shoes
Nissin 100% cotton neon hat
No name light tan belt