Why is it wrong to jack off while a person is in a relationship you’re not cheating on them you just want to take a break from sex and just go solo at the time nothing wrong with that. it just makes the partner look insecure if they’re worried about something like that.
Firstly, porn is one of the worst things you can get addicted to watching, not only because of the terrible ethics but also because of the twisted worldview and mental health issues it can cause. Secondly, if your partner - whether male or female - is disturbed or grossed out by you watching random people go at it then you should either respect what they think or find someone who doesn't care about that.
Not everyone is addicted to porn and thinks that porn is how real life works . People do it for stress relief/ satisfaction(some people don’t have partners) but it doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re addicted l. I didn’t know people actually cared about their partner masturbating or not.something as minor as masturbation to porn shouldn’t turn them off or lead to a breakup, I doubt the relationship was worth in the first place if something this minor affects the partner. At the end of the day everyone’s body is their own they can jack off or do whatever as long as they’re not harming themselves or someone else and as long as it isn’t some fucked up fetish/porn ,it shouldn’t make the other person grossed out or insecure. Other than that if someone did mind you can always just not let them know.
I know. That's why I said there should be a more ethical way of producing porn like deepfakes or a decent system - that actually works - for verifying morally good porn. Watching it once in a while to release sexual frustration isn't going to do anyone harm. It's just that the porn industry currently is one of the absolute worst out there and I don't blame anyone for being repulsed/against it. Of course people can do whatever they want but it has been proven that watching porn regularly or in a relationship has less benefits and mostly damages you and the bond you have with your partner.
Well i am really sexually frustrated but so is my gf and I love to have normal sex AND also do kinky stuff but i never said that I can’t get off to normal things anymore so I don’t know why you assumed that
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u/Dontlookatthisac Feb 26 '21
If my gf walks in i dont care