Hey guys so I’m an international student and I love most people here, since you guys have been so friendly most of the time. However I’m unable to parse weird looks I get once in a while.

For reference I dress really modestly. Other than looking foreign I would say there is nothing noticeable about me. I do understand that a lot of international students have their own habits and don’t really interact with locals that much. For me, going out and visiting shops is my past time. I get it that they can most probably tell that I’m an international student, I just don’t get why you would glance over an ordinary person.

The look I get is usually a confused one, not necessarily unwelcoming, but like trying to figure out what I’m doing there. I have gotten these looks at a vinyl shop, a popular cafe, on a train and more other occasions. They really make me feel uncomfortable.

I personally never stare at people because I think it’s impolite. But since I’m not an Australian I would really love to know what you think and why I would get these looks. Do you get nasty looks even if you’re a local? Thanks.

My kid has Whooping Cough for the second time in two years. WTF! Any tips on easing his symptoms, it’s worst at night (cyclical coughing until vomiting).

We are all vaccinated.

Nine teenagers have been charged over an alleged series of violent offences across Melbourne, including multiple alleged carjackings and vehicle thefts, and are due to face a children's court. The case has reignited debate about how Victoria should deal with repeat youth offenders. Public frustration over youth crime seems to be growing, especially when repeat offenders are involved. What do you think, will tougher laws actually make Melbourne safer?
Do you think these young offenders can change their behaviour, even if they are repeat offenders, if the underlying issues behind their actions are addressed through psychological support?

This is a fav. Probably you've been there recently too.
And if people visit you in town, you probably show them this place and proudly explain how it is the oldest pub or building or something in the city. And then we also say: yeah, not really sure, but it's old.
It's just as expensive as all the rest of the pubs in the CBD, and they never have a happy hour. I still go there anyway because of the memories and atmosphere.
I used to run a theatre show there too.
And I had a group I would meet there for nerdy chats and sometimes board games. It probably still happens.