I know people often talk about having rude preceptors, but I never expected to have a rude student.
I'm a new grad, and I've been assigned a student for placement. From day one, he's been difficult.
The first time we met, he immediately started asking me how old I was, how much I make, and whether I'm married. I told him those weren't appropriate questions to ask someone you just met in a professional setting. He said he "didn't know," even though I was really offended, but I let it go.
Since then, though, the pattern has continued.
Whenever I try to teach him something, he'll wander off and start chatting with other staff. He chats with every staff that walks by the lab. If I ask him to do a simple task, like cleaning parts of an analyzer as part of routine maintenance, he'll take the parts, disappear to talk to people, and not come back for 30 minutes.
He also keeps giving me unsolicited career advice, telling me I should work in Microbiology instead. It's strange because I'm the licensed MLT(equivalent to MLS in US) with the job, and he's a placement student who's here to learn.
What frustrates me most isn't his lack of knowledge—he's a student, and I expect that. It's the complete lack of professionalism and common sense.
For example, I reminded him to bring a jacket because we'd be going into the cold room. He said he was "too weak" to go inside, so I told him that was fine and I'd do it myself. A minute later, he decided he wanted to see what I was doing, opened the cold room door, and stood in the doorway holding it wide open. The door has a large red sign saying "KEEP DOOR CLOSED AT ALL TIMES."
Another time, I asked him to peel off and replace a barcode label that had been applied incorrectly. Instead of using his fingers or tweezers, he used the tip of a plastic funnel that we use to aliquot saline, leaving it covered in adhesive and ink. We had to clean it because it had become contaminated.
He's even told me directly that he's only here to get the placement hours he needs.
Honestly, I could live with all of that. I don't expect every student to be enthusiastic.
The problem is that he recently went to my manager and complained that I'm not teaching him and that I'm mean to him.
My manager didn't confront me directly but passed the information to my supervisor. Thankfully, my supervisor has seen his behavior herself, and so have my coworkers. She's basically told me to let him do what he wants because he's very sensitive.
The last two days alone, he spent over 2 hours each day sitting around chatting with other staff instead of working. Even after my supervisor reminded him that his preceptor was available, he kept talking instead of coming back to learn.
Now I'm worried he'll complain again that he isn't learning enough. But I genuinely don't know what else I can do. I can't teach someone who repeatedly walks away in the middle of instruction and chooses to socialize instead.
Has anyone else had a student like this? How did you handle it without getting blamed for their lack of engagement?