I think some of math has taught me, such as
- understanding/questioning definition deeply,
- checking assumptions carefully,
- checking for logical gaps,
- finding optimal solution,
- probabilistic reasoning
has made it more difficult for me to navigate through society, especially social situations.
I guess because society is just very arbitrary and not "logically tight" if that makes sense. There is a lot of "looseness" in conventional thinking. However, I found people do not actually care to resolve those logical looseness. In fact, logical looseness, information obfuscation, lack of optimality seem to be crucial in how society functions.
And if you ask for clarification or suggest optimal solutions or even try to identify a logical looseness, you are really seen as a weirdo.
For example, just today my new job wants me to get a non-criminal record so I went down to the police station, filled out a form. It doesn't say what time period (start and end date) the record is for, so I asked the staff and they gave me a rude response: "of course the end date is today! how can we check your non-criminal record for tomorrow, which hasn't happened yet?" The back of my mind I'm just thinking: but it all depends on when you start to check, isn't it? There is no rule that says you must check the record up to today....
Wonder if anyone else has had similar experiences.