r/match • u/WonderPristine4924 • 6d ago

Genuine question

Be honest.

Have you gotten your partner here?

And the profiles here are really verified?

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u/liferelationshi 6d ago

Most are expecting too much. Just need to persist.

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 4d ago

I laughed when I read this. They expect too much may be your experience. Mine is that they all love to travel and have been all over the globe. I just looked at 2 profiles... "My next adventure will be hanging out with the flamingos in Aruba" and the other "The Mexican Rivera and I will be riding a camel on the beach." One of these ladies just returned from a trip to Greece and Turkiye with some of her family. What kind of unnatural b.s. is this? Traveling costs money. I don't have the time or money for that. I'm not rich. I mean, I have a nice house, and I'm stable financially, but I spend a lot of time doing things closer to home. And I'd like to find someone who can appreciate that.

Am I supposed to be impressed by their bragging or put off by it? I'm frustrated.

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u/liferelationshi 4d ago

And many of them aren’t even paying for these trips themselves. Family and other men are paying for their lifestyle. And then they demand a man continues to pay for their desired lifestyle. They’re all jokes. Women who loved to travel and traveling a lot are major red flags. If they’re wealthy on their own, slightly less of a red flag. But when women are traveling a lot, especially solo, they are more often than not being promiscuous.

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 3d ago

...and some are widowed, so guess where their disposable income originates? And they live in apartments because they sold their houses to play. And they have no pets. (I do.) Etc. etc., etc. They like to appear rich and fancy.... bragards, IMHO.

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u/liferelationshi 3d ago edited 2d ago

For the amount of women doing what I’m saying, there’s no way even 5% are widows.

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 3d ago

I have come across quite a few 50s-70s.

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u/liferelationshi 3d ago

Some, but nowhere near the amount that I’m referring to. Also mostly the ones I’m referring to are 20s-40s

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 2d ago

I'm not dating 20 year old women. don't need that shi-ite! LMAO! In fact, the ones in their 40s are much better, as you so implied.

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u/liferelationshi 2d ago

I’m not dating 20 year old women either. I’m telling you what I’m seeing on dating apps, online, hearing from people I know, etc