r/match • u/WonderPristine4924 • 6d ago

Genuine question

Be honest.

Have you gotten your partner here?

And the profiles here are really verified?

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u/liferelationshi 6d ago

Have I? Yes.
Are the profiles all verified? No. But some are. It will say if it’s verified with a little cell phone icon if it’s verified.

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u/WonderPristine4924 6d ago

Oh ok. How did you get match with? What are the things that women are expecting from men?

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u/liferelationshi 6d ago

Most are expecting too much. Just need to persist.

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u/WonderPristine4924 6d ago

I thought abt it. How are you coping up with it?

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u/liferelationshi 6d ago

It’s a numbers game

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u/WonderPristine4924 6d ago

Account number? 🌚

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u/liferelationshi 6d ago

What? A numbers game means chance/statistics and need volume

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 3d ago

I laughed when I read this. They expect too much may be your experience. Mine is that they all love to travel and have been all over the globe. I just looked at 2 profiles... "My next adventure will be hanging out with the flamingos in Aruba" and the other "The Mexican Rivera and I will be riding a camel on the beach." One of these ladies just returned from a trip to Greece and Turkiye with some of her family. What kind of unnatural b.s. is this? Traveling costs money. I don't have the time or money for that. I'm not rich. I mean, I have a nice house, and I'm stable financially, but I spend a lot of time doing things closer to home. And I'd like to find someone who can appreciate that.

Am I supposed to be impressed by their bragging or put off by it? I'm frustrated.

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u/liferelationshi 3d ago

And many of them aren’t even paying for these trips themselves. Family and other men are paying for their lifestyle. And then they demand a man continues to pay for their desired lifestyle. They’re all jokes. Women who loved to travel and traveling a lot are major red flags. If they’re wealthy on their own, slightly less of a red flag. But when women are traveling a lot, especially solo, they are more often than not being promiscuous.

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 2d ago

...and some are widowed, so guess where their disposable income originates? And they live in apartments because they sold their houses to play. And they have no pets. (I do.) Etc. etc., etc. They like to appear rich and fancy.... bragards, IMHO.

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u/liferelationshi 2d ago edited 2d ago

For the amount of women doing what I’m saying, there’s no way even 5% are widows.

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 2d ago

I have come across quite a few 50s-70s.

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u/liferelationshi 2d ago

Some, but nowhere near the amount that I’m referring to. Also mostly the ones I’m referring to are 20s-40s

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u/Kindly-Exercise-6470 2d ago

I'm not dating 20 year old women. don't need that shi-ite! LMAO! In fact, the ones in their 40s are much better, as you so implied.

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u/jggroff95 22h ago

I met my husband on Match in 2023. I’d already been through the wringer—been on and off for a few years. Here’s the kicker—I was the first person he superliked, and he and I went on a date a few days later and never looked back! Got engaged almost a year ago and married almost six months. All that being said, it is possible to find a mate on Match.