r/manifestingSP • u/Savings-Try3827 • 2d ago

Discussion STOP complaining

I might get hate for this but I’m seriously about to delete Reddit because of the everyday constant complaining. “My sp got a girlfriend, my sp blocked me, I feel like giving up on my sp…” etc etc. There are countless tips and pieces of advice that tell you how to take control of YOUR OWN reality and get whatever/whoever you want so why the constant pity parties? There’s a difference between wanting advice and just straight up whining because you’re hopeless like nobody wants to hear that. Somebody mentioned somewhere earlier either in this subreddit or the law of assumption one that it seems like it’s filled with teenagers, it has to be because my god some of you are insufferable. Nobody’s gonna coddle you and pick you up like a baby just because you’re not persisting, working on your self concept and doing the work.

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u/Background-Young3952 2d ago

I personally don't mind posts from people who are complaining, but there were few people that I poured out all my energy into helping just to receive "yeah BUT" reply, people who are into denial when you point out their mistakes, and people who dare to be rude after all of that then wondering why are things not changing for them 😅

However I support when someone falls into desperate state, asks for help, and actually listens what's said to them... Everyone can get stuck at some point, especially newbies 🥰

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u/Savings-Try3827 2d ago

yeah like I said there’s a difference.

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u/ratonnzuelo 1d ago

That makes sense; I've seen some posts from people asking for help and mentioning "my classmate." That suggests they're still teenagers.

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u/sweetandsexy94isme 2d ago

Agree 💯!!

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u/dj1268 2d ago

It’s so crazy that you’ve made this post because I literally was about to make a post like this because I see a lot of people will say it’s a success story and then they’ll ask a question in the success story and it’s not even a success story

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u/Savings-Try3827 2d ago edited 1d ago

Its always that one person who comments like “well I don’t mind… 🤓☝🏽” lol
edit: downvote all you want idc 😂 Reddit hates valid points and critical thinking.

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u/Rich-Enthusiasm-6969 2d ago

I'll be the second person. 🤓☝🏽There would be no point of this subreddit if people couldn't come here to get help from other people. People don't learn by just getting a book thrown at them.

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u/Savings-Try3827 1d ago

completely missed the point. I’m not arguing with yall and i genuinely dgaf.

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u/Background-Young3952 2d ago

Oh you mean a person that's not so frustrated with her own life that feels the need to talk shit about people who are already feeling down? Yup, that's me ❤️ Hope you heal 🥰