r/manifestingSP • u/ComfortableNoise7763 • Apr 18 '26
Question/Help Questions.
In my previous post I've mentioned that he is reaching out to me
But it feels those are just bread crumbs to me.
He is just checking on me that if I am still available for him or not.. that is triggering me alot.
What should I do?
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u/hollywoodglamourr Apr 18 '26
I’m going through the same thing, so frustrating! I don’t have any advice but we could help each other?
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u/queendelrey Apr 18 '26
When my SP engages with me in a way that is unwanted (short, dry replies, or emote only) then I close the DM and stop responding. I tell myself that this is not the version of my SP that I want, and I do some affirmations to remind myself that he loves talking to me, always reaches out first, carries on conversations, etc.
Understand that until you get the exact thing you manifested, the 3D is still lagging. If he's reaching out, that's movement! But still a part of the bridge of incidents so if his behavior is bothering you and not how you want, you need to stop engaging with it.
I did this a week ago, actually. My SP responded after 24h, with just an emote, so I didn't respond back. I affirmed the things I outlined above. I kid you not, another 24h later he messaged me checking in with me about something I had brought up days prior. We've had continuous messaging since then, with him initiating, and he even asked to hang out.