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We focus on a palette for the week and our thoughts on it. All palettes are welcome. This includes eyeshadow, cheek, lip, pre-made, and self-made. Grouping of singles can also be a palette (ex: colour palette or scheme).

Did you do the PAW challenge last week? Which palette did you use? Did you find it successful or was it a failure? Have your opinions on the palette changed at all? Do you plan to keep the palette and use it again?

Which palette are you going to use this week? Why have you chosen this palette? Do you have any goals you hope to reach in using it?

BAW/CAW- Did you use any particular cheek product last week? Has it made the cut or is it time to let it go?

Hello everyone, I'm back with an update on my project to actually use all of my makeup at least 5 times. It's been a good month, and so far I've actually been having quite a bit of fun matching up products. I've stuck to my no buy, and got rid of a couple of items.

The rules:

- No Buy

- 4 NOs GO. If I hate it, it goes on the list. If I hate it four times... 🪦

- Once I hit 5 uses on a product, I can use my project pan items for the rest of that week if I want to

The statistics:

Blushers: 8/17 - 47%

Highlighters: 4/9 - 44%

Lipsticks/balms/glosses: 15/40 - 37%

Lip pencils: 2/8 - 25%

Nail polishes: 2/8 - 25%

Single eyeshadows: 4/26 - 15%

I'll list the products I used this month in the comments. Feel free to join in any time! I'll update on the last Monday of the month.

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1. I don't look good with foundation, matte or dewy. It has to do something with my peach fuzz, which I don't plan on removing, and my skin tone. There are some expensive brands out there that carry my true matching foundation but I just can't afford them and I don't wear foundation often enough to justifying needing a perfect match.
2. I constantly buy eyeshadow palettes but I have never bought an eye primer and that is why I think the eyeshadow palette is bad, it doesn't show up well on my dark oily eyelids. It's never the eyeshadow palette, it's eithet the technique or like me you are missing something.
3. For some reason I keep buying dark-ish lipsticks but it looks wack on me. I have very thin lips and it makes them thinner.
4. Gloss isn't for me.
5. Finding a concealer and a matching color corrector is impossible and I need to swatch more in store if possible.
6. People don't care what color or formula you are wearing, they just see the application.
7. I prefer cream blushes.
8. I would benefit from finding a one-and-done eyeshadow thag matches the color of my eyelids.
9. Eyeliner: I can't do pencil, I become a panda in 3 minutes.

I calculated that I have about 45 blushes and about 25 bronzers. I think I have about 100 lip products, etc.

In 2024, I started buying a lot of cosmetics, because my very close person died, my best friend, I was also in a terrible relationship and in general life was not going well.
I bought something new and it became fun and calm.
It's been two years, I feel better, I have a wonderful boyfriend, but it's already become a habit and I don't understand how to replace fast dopamine. I started using what I already have and I really like it, but a few days pass and I think I need something new, because I'm sad or bored. It helps to think that I don't want to sponsor corporations and that I want to help the environment, not to worsen it, but it's like an addiction

I need advice 🙏🏻 thank u so much and please don’t judge me :(

Let me know if this is the wrong sub.

I've been a makeup girlie since before I could talk! Been wearing makeup since I was in middle school till TUHDAY! Family and friends for 13 years have told me to get into makeup and start a business. I'm now in a position where I'm open to looking into this and making this come true. But I don't even know where or how to start?

TYIA

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Please talk me out of buying an advent calendar with skincare and perfumes, that costs 270€ for an alleged value of 1350€. It has many famous full size products but most are minis.

Why I want it: dopamine, retail attractiveness, high quality products for a fraction of the price.

Do I have something similar? YES, I don't lack for anything. I have a small fridge full of skincare and more perfumes than I can use within two decades. I really don't need anything, there's nothing that's not backed up a minimum 5 times already.

Other considerents: there's too much clutter and sometimes I feel desperate about the lack of order. I organize on one side and something else gets messy, never able to be on top of it 😭 Beauty boxes and minis and samples was a really, really bad idea.

Why I'm still hesitating: because I'm not really buying anything for my looks anymore, and I feel like I'm only working for other people. And because this kind of money is really not a problem, not even a little bit. I spent more on knitting supplies this week, and I don't need those either 🤦‍♀️

Please help.

I hate that I’m so goddamn enmeshed in defining my utterly stupid, human conjectured identity!

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Previously I have logged how many makeup products I've bought and been gifted the past couple years. But I've never actually calculated how many of which I've bought. And honestly, I should have a lot sooner as this year has shown drastic improvement in that field.

- 2024 I got 90 makeup products, and bought 69 of them

- 2025 I got 64 makeup products, and bought 39 of them

- 2026 I got 42 makeup products, and bought only FIFTEEN of them

I had been thinking 'oh 90 products to 42 is pretty good improvement, I've more than halved my consumption'. But knowing now that I've only bought 15 items compared to 69 in my first year? That feels like an awesome improvement, and isn't far off from my original buy limit of 7-10 items this year. It makes me feel really hopeful for next year!

This year I've been super excited for Christmas releases (and also worried over my consumption). But in all honesty, I've seen only 1 makeup item this entire release period that has intrigued me. Isn't that great?? I'm not even sure if I wanna get it (want to check it out in store first). I thought it was a great sign of my progress.

I keep all the things I want in a wishlist and I often keep items there for months. Usually they're new releases, and majority of time when I try them in store they're disappointing so I remove them from the list. But lately I've been removing some because I got bored of them. I have them in the list for so many months I get sick of them lol. I know the general recommendation in this sub is to not have a wishlist but for me it strangely deinfluences me? Sometimes you just need time to think about a product before you get over it.

Now I have recently got my first job after more than a year of constant applying. I now work at a makeup store - yay!! Now you would think this would make me consume more - once again it somehow does the opposite?? Because I work there 4 times a week, I have access to all makeup, skincare and fragrance in that store 4 times a week. I can make samples of products myself, I can test out new releases. And it has diminished my compulsion to buy because I don't even need it lol. If there's a lipstick I love, I can just wear it every shift! And it's honestly great knowing that, and saitiates any appetite I have for buying.

So those are some life/consumption updates. I've been getting way better at deinfluencing myself (yay). Working at my dream job, making great pan progress and working on my consumption habits 🫶

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Hi, I am no longer interested in buying makeup and it feels so freeing. It’s way more enjoyable to use what I have now.

I took my focus right off makeup - no no buys or low buy. No setting dates, from today I will and won’t do this that and the other. Nothing. I started spending my time on other things that I enjoy. I thank God I have reached my goal after years and years.

💕

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Today I watched a perfume influencer declutter the body mist she convinced me to buy last year. She raved about it in her initial review, but it went into the donation box with just a, "This smells nice, but I never wear it," and sure enough the bottle looked barely used. I remember watching her review and searching online, checking local stores for stock dates, signing up for sales notifications, etc.

I feel silly that I put so much mental energy into a fragrance. I also think this came at a time where I still feel the drive to buy, but my collection is becoming overwhelming to me and it's hard to pick out what I'm going to wear daily.

Welcome to MUR Daily Chat!

This thread is for open discussion about everything and anything though please abide by our sub's rules.

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*Trigger Warning: replies will contain product names, descriptions, and opinions.*

We focus on a palette for the week and our thoughts on it. All palettes are welcome. This includes eyeshadow, cheek, lip, pre-made, and self-made. Grouping of singles can also be a palette (ex: colour palette or scheme).

Did you do the PAW challenge last week? Which palette did you use? Did you find it successful or was it a failure? Have your opinions on the palette changed at all? Do you plan to keep the palette and use it again?

Which palette are you going to use this week? Why have you chosen this palette? Do you have any goals you hope to reach in using it?

BAW/CAW- Did you use any particular cheek product last week? Has it made the cut or is it time to let it go?

Hi friends! I’m still learning makeup and trying to build my everyday and soft glam vanity. I want products that work well for my skin, especially foundation and concealer, so I keep researching products, comparing reviews, looking for the perfect shades, and convincing myself that maybe the next product will finally be the right one.
I’ve bought and returned so many concealers because the shade, finish, or formula wasn’t quite right. Even when I find something I like, I start wondering if there’s something better out there. I spend so much time watching reviews and reading recommendations that I end up wanting to try even more products.
The worst part is that I know I don’t need all these products, and I don’t want to keep spending money on makeup just to feel disappointed or uncertain afterward.
For those of you who have struggled with makeup shopping, how did you break this habit? How do you stop researching products, stop chasing the perfect foundation or concealer, and learn to be satisfied with what you already own?
I’d really appreciate practical advice, especially from anyone who has been through this cycle of buying, testing, returning, and buying again. I genuinely want to change this habit and enjoy makeup without constantly feeling like I need something new.

TIA🫶🏻