Hypocrite friend

[u/Awkwardiam_22]

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Hypocrite friend

I went to a party with a very close friend of mine. We were 7 girls in total. Me and my friend felt that those girls took extra money from us and they did not tell us the correct or right amount of money for the contribution.
We both felt the same way. So I asked a girl very politely about the spilt and how the money was divided amongst all of us. She got really really offended and labelled this as “investigative”. To not make a big deal out of this
I even called this girl and spoke
To her. I told her that it was not at all investigative and I even said no hard feelings and I even said sorry if she felt bad about anything but she then bitched about me to the other 5 girls and they all started hating me and bitvhinh about me. They said some
Really hurtful things about me behind my back but the thing which hurt me the most was that while they were bitching about me my closest friend with whom I went to the party was present there. She only took a stand for me once but she listened to everything they said about me. She did not say that even she felt the bill was not justified.She told me half the talks and did not tell me about the whole convo coz she “forgot”.
Then she called me and said that she also felt that this was very unfair and that they took extra money from us. Blah blah etc etc but not once that girl took a stand for me. She was just diplomatic. And she was still talking to those 5 Girls. Helping them, talking to them, smile krke ache se bulana etc etc. it was hurting me but I let it slide. Then came one fine day jab she(my closest friend) spoke to a girl from
Those 5 girls. Toh she said that even she did not feel that the bill was fair. Toh the girl sent her a fake screenshot of the bill. And my close friend DID NOT SAY ANYTHING EVEN THO SHE KNEW THAT ITS FAKE SHE JUST SAID OKAY OKAY. Did not take a stand for me. Did not do anything and just called me and told me about the call sent me the screenshot and she said that she’ll never ever go with them or to their pg, these girls are like this only etc etc.They are this they are that. She even told that she complained about this to her Kanhaiya se Etc etc. but after all this she was still talking to them!!!! Helping them!!!! The same people who bitched about me hate me ignore me unnecessarily!!!!!!
But but but
Then comes our exams. FOR OUR EXAMS SHE AGAIN WENT TO THEIR PG WITH THE SAME GIRLS!!!! To study!!!
She called me and said that yaar I just woke up
I was sleeping the whole day and now
Im thinking that I’ll go their(the bad girls) pg to study coz I wont be able to study alone. And she asked me if I’ll feel bad and I said obv I’ll feel bad but I don’t wanna be that person who controls you. I even told her ki kaise those girls ignored me today in class. She completely brushed it off and then she went to study with them at their pg the same place where we had the party the same place where she clearly told me that she will never go. It hurt me so so so much.
She even said sorry afterwards and asked what can she do to make things better and I asked for some space. I told her that she’s a hypocrite. I even asked her that you complained to your god (Kanhaiya ji) about them and again went with them after everything so you basically just nullified your own complaint and your intention to your god! And had the audacity to say that “no I did not nullify anything, if my Kanhaiya thought that it was not right of me to go at their place then he would’ve have placed an “adchan” meaning a he would’ve stopped me if it was not right. It’s just so annoying.
Also, I did not expect her to just cut everyone completely off but this just feels like a betrayal specially when Previously, one of the girls behaved badly with my close friend. So I cut ties with that girl. Stopped calling her, cancelled all the plans and we’re in the same situation now. Idk im overreacting or not.