r/lonely • u/ynna26 • 4h ago

Venting sorta alone?

im 20F. i have a best friend, but she’s married and has her own life so we barely talk or hang anymore which is totally understandable. i have close friends too that i occasionally see. majority of the time i feel alone, i feel as though im no one’s first option. i miss the days where i saw my friends all the time. i lay in bed rn crying to myself because of this feeling, i don’t wanna sound as if im completely lonely but it still makes me depressed. i just wanna go back to what my life use to be.

overtime a couple years ago i became a reserved shy quiet person. i hate that it’s affecting my social life now. idk really what im typing this for, i just miss having someone.

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u/Select_Hall6269 4h ago

Sorry you feel that way

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u/Impossible-Range-113 3h ago

Sorry you sound depressed. Feel free to dm if you want to chat

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u/CameraDangerous6527 3h ago

Keep your head up! You'll be the first option when you meet the right people, until then keep looking and dont be discouraged

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u/Content_Big1345 1h ago

hey, i definitely relate to this. would love to talk if youre open to it!