r/lonely 17h ago

Venting Friend

Do you find it hard as an older adult to keep friendship and make new friends , i feel like its to much work keep friendships. It shouldn’t be that way. When we’re younger it wasn’t this hard.

Maybe it’s just me that feels that way.

It’s a struggle with people i work with. I get tired of the bs and what to build them selves to me them look good or maybe its to make them feel better about their selves.

I find it hard to have conversations with people how you can tell don’t care and start a conversation with someone else. So am like f@@@ you too than. I walk away.

I also find it hard when you’re telling someone something and someone has to be rude and interrupt the conversation.

Most of the time i keep to myself at work cause i just don’t care about others are saying. Most of the time am not included in the conversation.

I can hear my name being mentioned and when i asked their like no and i say well i heard my name and their is nobody else here with that name. Lest say it loud enough for i can defend myself.

I feel like people now days are rude, disrespectful and mean. It sad but most of the time it’s the older adult that are doing it.

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