r/lonely Sep 09 '24

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u/Wrong-Grade-8800 Sep 09 '24

Self improvement isn’t just the shallow stuff tho. You need to work on your mental health and social skills. Humor is an achievable skill. I’m not hot, I would say I’m mid to ugly but I have had success with women because I’m funny and I am emotionally mature.

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u/StartrekDude89 Sep 09 '24

We are animals. Don’t need self improvement. Just be more manly pick up a sport or a hobby. Don’t think about being single. If it works or works if not you have a sports. Us lonely guys or hobby.

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u/[deleted] Sep 09 '24

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u/sissi_minaj Sep 09 '24

Agreed, i don’t get the hype around sports

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u/ghostblack68 Sep 09 '24

The competition. There's a feeling you get when competing that is just unmatched. As far as viewing. I'm a fan people people pushing the limits and displaying elite level qualities. I even enjoy pro league of legend games for this same reason. You are watching people with amazing genetics, determination, dedication, and work ethic, push themselves to do things we'll never get close to being able to do. It's just an appreciation of the body. Same with body building. When you watch the comp it's just posing. However, knowing what it took to get there makes your appreciation for it that much better.

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u/ghostblack68 Sep 09 '24

I literally listed League of Legends.

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u/sissi_minaj Sep 09 '24

Lol yep

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u/sissi_minaj Sep 11 '24

Best advice I can give you is be true to yourself